darkSpyro

I've been debating whether or not to come back to this damned place.

I've had a horrible history with this place, not many people come to like me, and I don't really have any real friends.

I'm scared that something will happen. I don't know what. Something like what happened long ago or I might do something stupid or someone else might do something and then it just all crashes down again and..

I just don't know if I'm really ready to come back permanently. I'm.. scared. I don't have any real friends on here, like I said, so what's the point of coming back? This place is one huge train wreck and I'm so disappointed in myself and in this site that I just can't come to the resolution that "should I stay.. or just leave and leave this **** past behind?"

What do you think? I don't know what to do about this anymore because for some reason I still want to come back here. Some memories are precious, and some people here are really kind.. but I was never able to build a fully appropriate and real friendship with them.

COME BACK! I hate it when people leave! You're my friend(I don't really know you, but everyone's DMC's friends.) DUN LEEV!!!

Stay, some of us want you here.

Whatever feels more comfortable to you. I don't want you to be pressured into staying, or leaving. Do what you feel is right.

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Whatever feels more comfortable to you. I don't want you to be pressured into staying, or leaving. Do what you feel is right.

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Just because you miss something doesn't mean you should go back to it. The site was a part of your life for quite some time, and of course you're going miss it and want to come back, but you seemed to have faded away from here for a while.

You've changed and the site has changed, and it appears you are not appreciating it for what it is and rather lingering on what it used to be and what it is not. If you have the mentality that the site is a train-wreck, and such, then that is all it will remain for you...until something taps on your shoulder and remains you of the positives.

People missed you, many appreciate your presence despite some other bad memories attached to them, and really only certain behaviours you practised when you returned were ones that could be targeted as negative and all. If anyone's silly enough to bring up "who you used to be" in a negative manner against you, I owe you 1000 gems.

All in all, it's up to you. Do whatever you are comfortable with. Perhaps take the forum back in small douses or something, or just leave. I just hope you tell people more publicly next/this time you leave, as people were actually worried when you took that super long "hiatus".

Well wishes to you with whatever decision!

Perhaps just take a break for several weeks? See if you miss the site. If you end up just not being able to take it, maybe ask dark52 to ripto you or something.

I would like to see you around. And if you want "real friends" you could try opening up to me or others. Having trust in those that earn it and you feel they will help you understand. I'm not saying you have to come back. Is all up to you. Is fun seeing your post, though I don't always agree with them. Still, to make this clear, when I say something that implies that I don't think the same way, it doesn't mean I hate you or don't wish to see your post. This applies for many of us as well. So don't feel rejected.

Forums will never be peaceful. Not through out its existence. Not when they have this many people. So everything that happened is expected. We deal with it. Complaining about it will get you nowhere. Not forever. Not saying that we don't need people to complain. People that order peace do calm the forum for a small time. Which is nice.

Point is, if you want to come back, come back. BUT! Only if you can deal with commotion. If they stress you out too much, then is better you stay out. Because the comotion won't stop anytime soon.

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Perhaps just take a break for several weeks? See if you miss the site. If you end up just not being able to take it, maybe ask dark52 to ripto you or something.

Woah, woah, woah hold up here. Asking dark to ripto is a bad idea, and here's why:

1. You'll never be able to come back or stalk, or occasionally post.
2. If you want to return you'll have to make a whole new account.
3. It's a time waster.
4. Friends and other people may miss said ripto'd user and know they really won't be coming back.

D: *I'll leave now

Well, it's late at night(where I am) my eyes aren't open when I post. If one really, truly wanted to abort the site for good, I'd imagine it as an option.

I guess I could "come back" really, and only post occasionally. I'll have to get used to the way things are, now.

I'm going to be brutally honest here. Something that doesn't always work out how I intend.

I only really recall seeing you in S&N, which there are a few people her I have come to like that I've only known here. You often seem to spam Demi Lovato images or other things involving her. You also often write in a texting like speak with rather n00bish spelling.

I don't hate you, but I don't really love you or anything. When I heard you had left, I was a bit sad as I do still enjoy seeing you around and see you as a part of this site, this family. You may not feel the love here, but I feel it does exist.

You rather remind me of a friend of mine. We often act snotty and somewhat rude to each other and whenever we see each other have this thing where we see who can flip the other off first. But in the end, it's all in good fun, and we're still friends. Not very close friends who hang out all the time, but still. It seems like many users are that way with you, and while some may generally dislike you and be mean to you, which happens to everyone, there are still those here who love you.

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Quote: HotDogAndZap

Whatever feels more comfortable to you. I don't want you to be pressured into staying, or leaving. Do what you feel is right.

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^These.

I like how the topic is called "Ok, a serious thing, here." Yet this is in Stuff and Nonsense. >.>

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I like how the topic is called "Ok, a serious thing, here." Yet this is in Stuff and Nonsense. >.>

Serious things happen here. No lie.

Give a good long thought about it, maybe list the pros and cons of comng back and the pros and cons of leaving.

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I like how the topic is called "Ok, a serious thing, here." Yet this is in Stuff and Nonsense. >.>

Serious things happen here. No lie.

Oh.

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I like how the topic is called "Ok, a serious thing, here." Yet this is in Stuff and Nonsense. >.>

Serious things happen here. No lie.

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I like seeing you round here. I remember when I first joined, you and some other users made me laugh with every post. You made the site more lively. But then you left and I was like, aw hell no! It's entirely your choice. Stuff will happen here because it's darkspyro. Believe it or not, there are a few days when we all get along....I think

is it possible for anybody to leave dS and NEVER come back??????

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is it possible for anybody to leave dS and NEVER come back??????

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anyway, spyra. who cares what people on the internet think of you? if you enjoy coming on the site, come on it. no one here hates you or finds you annoying anyway. you might of being a little stupid when you were younger on the forum, but so was i, and in fact i was much worse than you. so just calm down, if you enjoy the site, then go on it!

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is it possible for anybody to leave dS and NEVER come back??????

Tango.

Personally, I love seeing you around the forums. You don't know me very well, but I can definitely say that you're an awesome person. I would like it if you stayed, but if it becomes too stressful for you, then you should probably take a break. I missed you when you were gone, but really, it's whatever you want to do. I'm just throwing my opinion out there.