- When you behave a certain way here, you may get that behaviour in return. If you don't like how some people treat you, perhaps change this behaviour or talk to them directly about it instead of passively speaking about them or hiding behind 'joking behaviour".
- You will be ignored for your worth and overshadowed sometimes. You will be given more attention than others sometimes, too. You have every right to stand up for your own worth if you feel mistreated or disrespected. However, remember, popularity is far from everything, but humans have a natural tendency to limelight people more than others. It never means you, yourself, are a bad person who doesn't deserve attention.
- You will make mistakes. Others may may mistakes. People have a tendency to capitalize on their mistakes sometimes, too. People may try to capitalize on each other's mistakes as well.
- People who are more well-known will be able of getting away with things that others may not. You may be treated sarcastically or in any other disrespectful way for pointing such things out, and you may be ignored. Don't stop this, but try not to dramatize things. People in the limelight are never free from criticism and sometimes get the most of it, but not always in the same ways as others who are not limelighted. People who are new can get away with a few things as well.
- Overall, you have a right to speak up for yourself and while people may be very dismissive, and even capitalize on you when you speak up, it does not mean you're in any way wrong to speak up. However, if you have a certain pattern - people will pay attention to this pattern and remember it, which could lead to less and less patience. Your concerns may be invalidated by others, but at the same time, barring yourself from suggestion is likely to lead to more of this behaviour.
- You are only yourself and can only assume for others. You only truly know how it is to be yourself than anyone else. You do not have the same emotional structure as any other person, no matter how similar you may seem to be.
- You are free to say whatever you like, but kicking your feet and saying people should ignore it is hypocritical. People have every right to call you out. You have every right to call others out. Disrespect and bad attitude breeds disrespect and bad attitude, but not always.
- Try your best to say what you mean. Asking to clarify things can make a world of difference and can avoid conflict...of course, people don't always want to avoid conflict, which tends to be obvious here sometimes.
- There is a difference between sarcasm, crude humour and "trolling".
- You can't always change or help people, but that doesn't mean you should just give up. Sometimes a change of plan or method can make a huge difference. Changing your perspective can be a very powerful thing, sometimes. Not everyone will be open for help or want to be helped, although.
darkSpyro - Spyro and Skylanders Forum > Stuff and Nonsense > A few notes/reminders.
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Wild Platinum Sparx Gems: 5045 |
#1 Posted: 23:53:15 21/06/2013 | Topic Creator
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#2 Posted: 01:05:39 22/06/2013
Shaddup wild.
Seriously though, this would be a good read for some *cough* users |
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#3 Posted: 01:07:41 22/06/2013
Quote: Bravo101
You sayen somethen boy?
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#4 Posted: 01:09:10 22/06/2013
Huh biatch? Wanna go roger?
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#5 Posted: 01:14:45 22/06/2013
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#6 Posted: 01:23:32 22/06/2013
Well said~!
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Congrats! You wasted five seconds reading this. |
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#7 Posted: 01:24:29 22/06/2013
Anyway, true Wild, true.
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#8 Posted: 01:26:33 22/06/2013
So wise.
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#9 Posted: 01:30:33 22/06/2013
This is very true, greatly said.
I actually could need this advice myself, so thanks. |
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#10 Posted: 02:43:12 22/06/2013
Too long 4 me 2 read *~*
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Wild Platinum Sparx Gems: 5045 |
#11 Posted: 04:08:32 22/06/2013 | Topic Creator
Thank yous! I thought this might be a bad idea so I had a bit of anxiety about it. I'm rather relieved now. c:
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#12 Posted: 20:50:43 23/06/2013
Truer words have never been spoken
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#13 Posted: 20:56:24 23/06/2013
Yeah those are rather true. Though I sometimes wish that some users would take the time and re- read this so they understand that.
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#14 Posted: 21:19:13 23/06/2013
This is all very true. Thank you Wild, this will help me be a better user.
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#15 Posted: 03:28:34 06/07/2013 | Topic Creator
No problem!
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#16 Posted: 03:32:33 06/07/2013
this better be stickied
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