In other words, casual sex with (theoretically) no feelings involved. What's your opinion on them?
For me personally, it's really internally destructive because I lack control over my emotions. But different strokes for different folks, I guess.
darkSpyro - Spyro and Skylanders Forum > Stuff and Nonsense > "No strings attached" relationships
Metallo
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#1 Posted: 17:06:57 01/05/2016 | Topic Creator
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Edited 1 time - Last edited at 17:10:01 01/05/2016 by Metallo
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#2 Posted: 17:17:47 01/05/2016
That's not my kind of romantic relationship. I like the innocent middle school/high school kind,
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CAV
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#3 Posted: 17:22:04 01/05/2016
Do whatever you want.
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Metallo
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#4 Posted: 17:36:35 01/05/2016 | Topic Creator
Quote: CAV
That's....Not really what I'm asking. I'm asking how you feel about it; as in, would you ever engage in one? Do you think you could manage it or would you cave in to feelings? Would you be afraid of it? Et cetera, et cetera. |
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#5 Posted: 17:41:49 01/05/2016
Managed it with a friend, would do again, but obviously it depends on the people involved. You have to be just as careful about it as you do with any type of relationship. Just keep things as open and honest as possible and if there's mutual desire for something like that, it can work.
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#6 Posted: 17:52:26 01/05/2016
Quote: Metallo
Do whatever you w- I don't know. The situation never presented itself. |
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#7 Posted: 17:59:53 01/05/2016
I think it only works well if you're able to do sex in a fast-paced, detached sort of way. It's real easy for strong emotional attachments to form if you do sex all slow and sweet and intimate like.
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#8 Posted: 18:05:48 01/05/2016
![]() no strings |
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#9 Posted: 18:07:33 01/05/2016
No.... not having it....
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#10 Posted: 18:08:25 01/05/2016
No way I'd have one. If I want to get fast pleasure I'll just spank the monkey.
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#11 Posted: 18:16:16 01/05/2016
Quote: Carmelita Fox
Animal abuse in not cool yo.
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#12 Posted: 18:21:58 01/05/2016
Quote: Carmelita Fox
the ape needs to be punished |
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#13 Posted: 18:23:59 01/05/2016
No, just no. Sex is only for those you love and those who do it to people they do not have any kind of romantic relationship with are soul less monsters, even if it's their job.
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HeyitsHotDog
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#14 Posted: 18:29:21 01/05/2016
Quote: Windumup
i wanna bang people i don't know hard There is no love from me when it comes to sex
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#15 Posted: 18:30:39 01/05/2016
Quote: Windumup
that's so mean. People enjoy sex, sometimes people have sex, there's nothing wrong with it as long as you're safe about it. Calling someone a soulless monster cuz they have sex isnt okay. It doesnt define them as a person. Someone who judges someone so harshly without knowing them, now that's a soulless monster
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Lunarz
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#16 Posted: 18:31:04 01/05/2016
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
so last night meant nothing to you? :c
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#17 Posted: 18:37:25 01/05/2016
Quote: Muffin Man
The monkey consented officer, I-I-I swear! |
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#18 Posted: 18:46:39 01/05/2016
Quote: Carmelita Fox
Well it's your word against the monkey's. We'll see how it holds up in court.
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#19 Posted: 18:49:20 01/05/2016
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
Quote: Lunarz
I am not calling them a soulless monster because they had sex, I am calling them a soulless monster for having sex with someone they don't even have a romantic relationship with.
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#20 Posted: 18:51:49 01/05/2016
Quote: Windumup
How am I a soulless monster for craving a one night stand?
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#21 Posted: 18:53:37 01/05/2016
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
One night stands do not equal a persons personality or morality. There's nothing wrong with it. You don't have to agree with it but dont call those people soulless monsters, you dont even know them
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Crash10
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#22 Posted: 19:12:05 01/05/2016
I don't have anything against people who do that. I understand people don't really want to be emotionally attached to someone, but it's not my personal style. I prefer the other way.
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#23 Posted: 19:16:23 01/05/2016
Quote: Windumup
I disagree with this so much. There's nothing wrong with consensual sex, period. If you're an adult (Stressing adult here very much) you are free to sleep with whoever you want, and in certain situations for certain people it can work out. If you go into it with the realization that there aren't going to be any mutual feelings between the two of you, and that it will never progress to a romantic relationship, a "No strings attached" situation can work out. Do they always? No. But they can, and there's nothing wrong with that. The concept of virginity is a social construct and it has no effect on your character. If you choose to wait for "the one", that's fine. If you don't, you're not a bad person. Sex is a normal part of an adult life and you don't have to limit it to those you love if you choose not to. |
CAV
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#24 Posted: 19:17:46 01/05/2016
Quote: Drawdler
If everyone remains civil and not resort to attacks it doesn't have to be. |
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#25 Posted: 19:29:46 01/05/2016
Quote: Bumblebunnii
Note I am more against straight people doing it without a romantic relationship due to the risk that someone may get pregnant and that they will be forced to A. Raise the baby together and give the child parents that don't love each other B. Have one person raise the child ALONE while the other leaves them with the child. C. Have the female go to an abortion clinic
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#26 Posted: 19:31:36 01/05/2016
Quote: Windumup
Or they could be smart and wear protection? |
Lunarz
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#27 Posted: 19:31:46 01/05/2016
Quote: Windumup
??? so practice safe sex?? and if an accident happens it happens. it's not your job to judge people on those choices it's so heterophobic ....Jfc i sound like a tumblr user
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CAV
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#28 Posted: 19:32:19 01/05/2016
Quote: Windumup
Protection, contraceptives, and child support all exist. And nothing wrong with going to an abortion clinic if she doesn't want a child. |
Lunarz
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#29 Posted: 19:33:19 01/05/2016
Quote: Lunarz
1. you ever heard of divorce? just cuz they dont love eachother doesnt mean they dont love the child 2. there are laws about that, custody is a court issue 3. that's the mothers choice
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#30 Posted: 19:35:11 01/05/2016
Quote: Windumup
There is both male and female birth control, and when put together it's a 99.999% prevention. Also being in a romantic relationship doesn't mean anything. No amount of love can make someone prepared for a tiny human being if they aren't ready. Look at Lunarz, do you think he's capable of raising a child? He would feed it pizza and try to play videogames with it. But seriously, the baby issue really is irrelevant in all of this. |
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#31 Posted: 19:35:54 01/05/2016
If two adults want to meet and have sex, fine. It's their life, let them do what they want. I wouldn't personally do it, but if other people want to, who am I to stop them?
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#32 Posted: 20:25:04 01/05/2016
I don't see anything really wrong with it, I wouldn't want one myself but that's cause I'm ace af so I wouldn't be doing that kinda thing even with a romantic partner. It would be kinda pointless tbh.
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Samius
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#33 Posted: 21:13:40 01/05/2016
Eh, it's fun sometimes. I haven't done anything like that in a while myself, but it's a good way to relieve stress since it's basically just sex without a larger commitment. You can have fun, be open and honest about it, and then go your separate ways. It doesn't feel wrong at all if you're both on the same page, and that's how it should be.
Having drunken one-night stands isn't the same thing though, and I would never recommend doing anything like that. That's when you don't take everything into consideration, and as a result might end up doing something very irresponsible. These kinda things should always be approached with a clear head, for your own sake as well as for the sake of your partner. I would also say that in many ways it's preferable to starting a "real" relationship. Lots of people aim for one when they really only want intimacy, and then they end up getting overwhelmed by the level of commitment that an actual relationship requires. Edit: I should still mention the simple fact that sex without romance doesn't equal sex without emotion. |
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C1nder
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#34 Posted: 21:23:57 01/05/2016
If I were single I don't think I'd have a problem with doing it, I don't see any problems with it as long as it's consensual and you use protection.
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#35 Posted: 21:27:19 01/05/2016
Quote: Windumup
I agree. It causes more problems than it's worth |
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#36 Posted: 21:29:40 01/05/2016
Quote: spyro fan 8
How so?
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#37 Posted: 21:29:40 01/05/2016
Quote: spyro fan 8
How so?
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#38 Posted: 21:29:41 01/05/2016
Quote: spyro fan 8
How so? |
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#39 Posted: 21:35:45 01/05/2016
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#40 Posted: 21:48:28 01/05/2016
This is the problem with Americanized western society. You treat sex like a bloody game! Sex is something you reserve for someone you love and want to start a family with, because that's what it's for. Ever since condoms, birth control and abortion were invented, people have gone mad with power!!!
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#41 Posted: 21:52:33 01/05/2016
Quote: Windumup
You do know the purpose of sex is to reproduce ? |
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#42 Posted: 21:53:01 01/05/2016
Quote: QueenChrysalis
But monkeys ****. Donkeys ****. Squirrels ****. Do you think they're thinking about love and affection while banging? No. We were there once. We were ****ing just to get out offsprings out there, to survive. When did this idea about sex has to equal love come about?
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#43 Posted: 21:53:02 01/05/2016
Quote: QueenChrysalis
But monkeys ****. Donkeys ****. Squirrels ****. Do you think they're thinking about love and affection while banging? No. We were there once. We were ****ing just to get out offsprings out there, to survive. When did this idea about sex has to equal love come about?
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#44 Posted: 21:53:02 01/05/2016
Quote: QueenChrysalis
But monkeys ****. Donkeys ****. Squirrels ****. Do you think they're thinking about love and affection while banging? No. We were there once. We were ****ing just to get out offsprings out there, to survive. When did this idea about sex has to equal love come about? |
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#45 Posted: 21:54:45 01/05/2016
Quote: QueenChrysalis
But monkeys ****. Donkeys ****. Squirrels ****. Do you think they're thinking about love and affection while banging? No. We were there once. We were ****ing just to get out offsprings out there, to survive. When did this idea about sex has to equal love come about? |
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#46 Posted: 21:57:03 01/05/2016
Quote: QueenChrysalis
This is funny because by the looks of it your avatar is probably porn. |
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