darkSpyro

so basically there's this girl at school i have a crush on, she's one of my best friends and i found out that she's also bisexual so that's nice, but i just realized

i'm still an actual 12-year-old
she's 13-14

oh god

i'm like 2 years younger than her what do i do

You say it like 2 years is a big difference.

Quote: Kitty

You say it like 2 years is a big difference.

So much this.

It's 2 years It's no big deal.

If you like her tell her.

2 years is not a big gap, and if others have an issue, screw them.

It's their issue, not yours.

Quote: Cynderfan507

In my opinion, 12 and 13-14 isn't really that big of an age difference. But it might get a few odd looks from others.
My advice? If you can handle weird looks and things like "duuuude you're like wayyyyy too young for her", go for it. If not (and if your parents would have an issue with it), wait a while.
Which leads me to another question, do your parents know that you're bi? That's gotta be considered as well.

I mean, it's not really gonna be us "dating" or whatever, because my parents will definitely not let me date yet.
But yes, I have come out to both my parents (but not my little sister) and they're totally cool with it. I've told my mom that I like this girl and she seems okay with it. But no prompts from her to tell her or anything yet.

Quote: Kitty

You say it like 2 years is a big difference.

Well, not really the years as a number, but the fact that I'm still a "preteen" and she's a teenager. I don't know how people would react to that, let alone two girls being together in this grade (some homophobic normies in my class).

Alright, thanks for the help, guys. I guess S&N isn't just for memes after all.

Go for it girl ^-^ you have my support!

To be honest there are a lot of freshmen girls who get used by seniors or juniors without noticing it. I guess a lot of girls just like the idea of dating older men.

If you like a person, you like a person! I like a person that is turning 9 (According to what he says, he might be lying though, who knows!) and I am turning 11! Crushes are crushes, Love is love!

update: she called me to ask about a science lab thing we did as partners (i was sick thursday-now), somethings about whether i had it or not, i told her was in my locker and stuff. then she asked if i was okay, i just said "extremely sick", we had a laugh, she said she hopes i feel better, and then i awkwardly said bye, thinking that she, the more courageous one, would hang up no problem.

no guys she like said "b-by- okay bye" in this awkward quiet voice like i did

GUYS DOES THIS MEAN SHE LIKES ME TOO I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THE HECKING HECK LOVE IS

Quote: dinorang67

update: she called me to ask about a science lab thing we did as partners (i was sick thursday-now), somethings about whether i had it or not, i told her was in my locker and stuff. then she asked if i was okay, i just said "extremely sick", we had a laugh, she said she hopes i feel better, and then i awkwardly said bye, thinking that she, the more courageous one, would hang up no problem.

no guys she like said "b-by- okay bye" in this awkward quiet voice like i did

GUYS DOES THIS MEAN SHE LIKES ME TOO I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THE HECKING HECK LOVE IS

This is love, (I Am being honest cause I am in love.)

Love is when you miss the person ALL THE TIME! Even at school, your in a different classroom, and you're like, "I Wish I can see him/her..." Even on a weekend!
Love is when you see her/him hanging out with a guy/girl that you know likes him/her or you think he/she likes them, you get Envious.
Whenever you see him/her do ^ you feel like your going to cry.

That my dear friend, is love. =3

Oh my god you're so much younger than I realized.

Quote: Mesuxelf

Oh my god you're so much younger than I realized.

Help me, I'm only 12 years old, but I'm in Grade 8, the shortest kids in my class are older than me, actually help.

Quote: dinorang67

Quote: Mesuxelf

Oh my god you're so much younger than I realized.

Help me, I'm only 12 years old, but I'm in Grade 8, the shortest kids in my class are older than me, actually help.

I'm going to be 12 in 7th grade, when I am supposed to be in 6th, anyways,

its fine you are younger/taller/shorter then the other kids! I am suppose to be in 4th, and I am the second tallest in my class! (5'3 and a half)

OH YES FINALLY A TIME TO USE THIS IN A REAL LIFE SITUATION

Never fear. xkcd is here:


I am also a year younger than others in my grade, and even though I'm about as tall as the other kids, height doesn't matter, like Eevee said.

Quote: The Bone Chompy

OH YES FINALLY A TIME TO USE THIS IN A REAL LIFE SITUATION

Never fear. xkcd is here:


I am also a year younger than others in my grade, and even though I'm about as tall as the other kids, height doesn't matter, like Eevee said.

EDIT: Just in case she is 14 and not 13, the formula still works, as it says under in the chart and not over.

Quote: The Bone Chompy

OH YES FINALLY A TIME TO USE THIS IN A REAL LIFE SITUATION

Never fear. xkcd is here:


I am also a year younger than others in my grade, and even though I'm about as tall as the other kids, height doesn't matter, like Eevee said.

Objection to your therory, You can actually get married when you first go into college, so that means 18+

^~^ (Unless that is what it said, I couldn't make sense of it.)

I meant to edit my post and not reply to it
I'm making it worse, aren't I?

Yeah yeah yeah, tell it to the judge

Quote: somePerson

To be honest there are a lot of freshmen girls who get used by seniors or juniors without noticing it. I guess a lot of girls just like the idea of dating older men.

While that's true, this is a potential relationship that's 1-2 years apart. That's not a very big gap at all. Even then, it sounds like they're in the same grade despite that, so that situation doesn't even apply.

I say go for it! You have nothing to loose! There's always that fear of like "But what if they reject me?" "What if our friendship turns around for the worse because of it?"

Well in my years of seeing my friends date each other and giving advice, including me confessing a crush, like, once; confessing doesn't really turn out bad. Especially if it's a trusted friend.
They might reject you, but telling them anyway feels like it takes a big weight off of your shoulders.
And I've never seen friendships fall because of a confession. In fact, I've seen confessions in person and nothing bad actually happened - even if there was a rejection. I consider friendships falling apart an unrealistic expectation now, because I've literally never seen or heard of it happening.

Quote: TheFlyingSeal

Quote: somePerson

To be honest there are a lot of freshmen girls who get used by seniors or juniors without noticing it. I guess a lot of girls just like the idea of dating older men.

While that's true, this is a potential relationship that's 1-2 years apart. That's not a very big gap at all. Even then, it sounds like they're in the same grade despite that, so that situation doesn't even apply.

I say go for it! You have nothing to loose! There's always that fear of like "But what if they reject me?" "What if our friendship turns around for the worse because of it?"

Well in my years of seeing my friends date each other and giving advice, including me confessing a crush, like, once; confessing doesn't really turn out bad. Especially if it's a trusted friend.
They might reject you, but telling them anyway feels like it takes a big weight off of your shoulders.
And I've never seen friendships fall because of a confession. In fact, I've seen confessions in person and nothing bad actually happened - even if there was a rejection. I consider friendships falling apart an unrealistic expectation now, because I've literally never seen or heard of it happening.

For me it did. My crush hasn't talked to me for weeks, until Thursday. So I think it failed for me XP

Quote: Eevee88

Quote: TheFlyingSeal

Quote: somePerson

To be honest there are a lot of freshmen girls who get used by seniors or juniors without noticing it. I guess a lot of girls just like the idea of dating older men.

While that's true, this is a potential relationship that's 1-2 years apart. That's not a very big gap at all. Even then, it sounds like they're in the same grade despite that, so that situation doesn't even apply.

I say go for it! You have nothing to loose! There's always that fear of like "But what if they reject me?" "What if our friendship turns around for the worse because of it?"

Well in my years of seeing my friends date each other and giving advice, including me confessing a crush, like, once; confessing doesn't really turn out bad. Especially if it's a trusted friend.
They might reject you, but telling them anyway feels like it takes a big weight off of your shoulders.
And I've never seen friendships fall because of a confession. In fact, I've seen confessions in person and nothing bad actually happened - even if there was a rejection. I consider friendships falling apart an unrealistic expectation now, because I've literally never seen or heard of it happening.

For me it did. My crush hasn't talked to me for weeks, until Thursday. So I think it failed for me XP

They still...talked to you though. I mean, people can go into shock and are afraid to confront the person again, but they all will eventually talk to you again. They were just most likely afraid to hurt you somehow, like act like nothing happened will hurt your feelings or something.

Quote: TheFlyingSeal

Quote: Eevee88

Quote: TheFlyingSeal

While that's true, this is a potential relationship that's 1-2 years apart. That's not a very big gap at all. Even then, it sounds like they're in the same grade despite that, so that situation doesn't even apply.

I say go for it! You have nothing to loose! There's always that fear of like "But what if they reject me?" "What if our friendship turns around for the worse because of it?"

Well in my years of seeing my friends date each other and giving advice, including me confessing a crush, like, once; confessing doesn't really turn out bad. Especially if it's a trusted friend.
They might reject you, but telling them anyway feels like it takes a big weight off of your shoulders.
And I've never seen friendships fall because of a confession. In fact, I've seen confessions in person and nothing bad actually happened - even if there was a rejection. I consider friendships falling apart an unrealistic expectation now, because I've literally never seen or heard of it happening.

For me it did. My crush hasn't talked to me for weeks, until Thursday. So I think it failed for me XP

They still...talked to you though. I mean, people can go into shock and are afraid to confront the person again, but they all will eventually talk to you again. They were just most likely afraid to hurt you somehow, like act like nothing happened will hurt your feelings or something.

Either that or (From other people I said this problem to replied with this,) He feels the same way I do. How I think this is true because he liked me before I liked him....

Could be possible! Love it hard and confusing, but people find a way through it somehow.

So I've heard. But with all these anime I've been watching, sense its a show, their life is perfect by it! I Want my life to be a anime ;.;

Quote: Eevee88

Quote: dinorang67

Quote: Mesuxelf

Oh my god you're so much younger than I realized.

Help me, I'm only 12 years old, but I'm in Grade 8, the shortest kids in my class are older than me, actually help.

I'm going to be 12 in 7th grade, when I am supposed to be in 6th, anyways,

its fine you are younger/taller/shorter then the other kids! I am suppose to be in 4th, and I am the second tallest in my class! (5'3 and a half)

lol i'm in 7th grade. next year is my last year at middle school

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Quote: Eevee88

So I've heard. But with all these anime I've been watching, sense its a show, their life is perfect by it! I Want my life to be a anime ;.;

What if it were JoJo where everyone dies at the end?

Then everyone would be reborn!

Quote: Cynderfan507

Quote: Eevee88

So I've heard. But with all these anime I've been watching, sense its a show, their life is perfect by it! I Want my life to be a anime ;.;

Same. Everything would be so much easier.

Aye...

Quote: The Bone Chompy

OH YES FINALLY A TIME TO USE THIS IN A REAL LIFE SITUATION

Never fear. xkcd is here:


I am also a year younger than others in my grade, and even though I'm about as tall as the other kids, height doesn't matter, like Eevee said.

your time has come, small comic.
12 ÷ 2 + 7 = 13
By that rule, 13 year olds probably couldn't date me.

Quote: dinorang67

Quote: The Bone Chompy

OH YES FINALLY A TIME TO USE THIS IN A REAL LIFE SITUATION

Never fear. xkcd is here:


I am also a year younger than others in my grade, and even though I'm about as tall as the other kids, height doesn't matter, like Eevee said.

your time has come, small comic.
12 ÷ 2 + 7 = 13
By that rule, 13 year olds probably couldn't date me.

I think that rule really only works with older ages. For example: 40/2 + 7 = 27, 40 year olds dating 26 year olds would be creepy.