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A Serious Question
King-Pen Krazy Yellow Sparx Gems: 1907
#1 Posted: 21:01:28 03/04/2018 | Topic Creator
And no, this isn't one of those stupid joke threads that have a very not serious question.

Now, let's say a man accused a woman of sexually assulting/raping him

Who would you believe, the man or the woman?(The woman claiming she didn't do it)

I just wanna see what you guys think
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HeyitsHotDog Diamond Sparx Gems: 8924
#2 Posted: 21:03:47 03/04/2018
Quote: King-Pen Krazy
And no, this isn't one of those stupid joke threads that have a very not serious question.

Now, let's say a man accused a woman of sexually assulting/raping him

Who would you believe, the man or the woman?(The woman claiming she didn't do it)

I just wanna see what you guys think



Unlike men, women are beings of justice and purity, so no matter what, a woman cannot rape a man, as they are above such heinous acts. /s
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#3 Posted: 21:09:35 03/04/2018
If you see the man actively screaming for help while the woman is aggressively raping him, then yes... and you must beat the woman down and arrest her for rape.
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King-Pen Krazy Yellow Sparx Gems: 1907
#4 Posted: 21:15:50 03/04/2018 | Topic Creator
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
Quote: King-Pen Krazy
And no, this isn't one of those stupid joke threads that have a very not serious question.

Now, let's say a man accused a woman of sexually assulting/raping him

Who would you believe, the man or the woman?(The woman claiming she didn't do it)

I just wanna see what you guys think



Unlike men, women are beings of justice and purity, so no matter what, a woman cannot rape a man, as they are above such heinous acts. /s


I mean, I won't judge you for your opinion(Unless you are joking in which case I'm an idiot)

Quote: StevemacQ
If you see the man actively screaming for help while the woman is aggressively raping him, then yes... and you must beat the woman down and arrest her for rape.


I don't mean that, I mean this is a case where after the possible rape/sexual abuse occurs the male claimed the female did it to him
Quote: Sesshomaru75
It really depends on the situation, imo. My only problem with these kinds of scenarios is that either one could be telling the truth, but 9 times out of 10, even if the man was the victim, no one will believe him.

This is kind of why I have a hard time believing a lot of these scandals as of recently, at least entirely.
I'm sure there are people telling the truth, but there's a lot of people that are probably just in it for the money and are taking advantage of not only real victims, but the people they're trying to get money out of as well.

But obviously it's hard to tell, and even harder to prove who's lying and who isn't, but generally men are at a disadvantage even if they didn't do anything wrong.

Not to mention the fact that some people legitimately believe that men can't get raped because they "enjoy it", which is honestly no better than the people that say "it's not rape if they enjoy it" towards women. It's honestly disgusting.

As someone who is biologically male and has been raped more than once, I'm especially uncomfortable around people who actually think like that.


I agree with this post
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Seiki Platinum Sparx Gems: 6150
#5 Posted: 21:16:21 03/04/2018
Given the provided scenario, it's a matter of "he said/she said" and I wouldn't truly believe either one. I'd seek more evidence and try to learn more about what happened before choosing a side.
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King-Pen Krazy Yellow Sparx Gems: 1907
#6 Posted: 21:18:10 03/04/2018 | Topic Creator
Quote: Seiki
Given the provided scenario, it's a matter of "he said/she said" and I wouldn't truly believe either one. I'd seek more evidence and try to learn more about what happened before choosing a side.



Same here

The situation I've stated is just kind of a before anybody aside from the possible victim and the possible abuser have any real evidence of what's possibly happened

But I agree
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King-Pen Krazy Yellow Sparx Gems: 1907
#7 Posted: 21:20:32 03/04/2018 | Topic Creator
Quote: Sesshomaru75
Quote: King-Pen Krazy
I mean, I won't judge you for your opinion(Unless you are joking in which case I'm an idiot)


The "/s" at the end means he was being sarcastic.

Quote: Seiki
Given the provided scenario, it's a matter of "he said/she said" and I wouldn't truly believe either one. I'd seek more evidence and try to learn more about what happened before choosing a side.


Yeah, for this scenario you've provided, this is the answer.


K, thanks for the clarification.

I was just wondering if what anybody would say about the issue
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DirtPrincess Green Sparx Gems: 276
#8 Posted: 02:42:11 04/04/2018
Maybe I'm biased and obviously this isn't a great way to think, but I fully believe any accuser until given reason to not. It's my personal way of thinking and I'm not the law, so "innocent until proven guilty" doesn't have to apply to me I guess.

An estimated 63% of rapes go unreported. A study of reported rape case in 2000-2003 found 2.1% of rape allegations to be falsely reported. Among these false reports, some of the determining factors in classifying them as such included the victim not cooperating with investigators, delayed reporting, insufficient evidence, and statement inconsistencies from victims and witnesses. The false allegations are no higher than those for any other crime, but the victims of sexual violence are often accused of lying far far more than the victims of any other crime.

So basically I choose to believe anyone who claims it, because there's a 98& chance they're telling the truth.
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CAV Platinum Sparx Gems: 6430
#9 Posted: 04:56:53 04/04/2018
As much as it pains me to say it, natural instinct would have me just a bit more skeptical of the claim than if it were a woman making it. Of course, though I wouldn't rule out the possibility and listen to the facts.
C1nder Prismatic Sparx Gems: 10863
#10 Posted: 05:21:13 04/04/2018
Quote: DirtPrincess
Maybe I'm biased and obviously this isn't a great way to think, but I fully believe any accuser until given reason to not. It's my personal way of thinking and I'm not the law, so "innocent until proven guilty" doesn't have to apply to me I guess.

An estimated 63% of rapes go unreported. A study of reported rape case in 2000-2003 found 2.1% of rape allegations to be falsely reported. Among these false reports, some of the determining factors in classifying them as such included the victim not cooperating with investigators, delayed reporting, insufficient evidence, and statement inconsistencies from victims and witnesses. The false allegations are no higher than those for any other crime, but the victims of sexual violence are often accused of lying far far more than the victims of any other crime.

So basically I choose to believe anyone who claims it, because there's a 98& chance they're telling the truth.



this, pretty much
i'd rather support a potential victim than a potential rapist
Vespi Gold Sparx Gems: 2866
#11 Posted: 05:22:37 04/04/2018
Quote: C1nder
Quote: DirtPrincess
Maybe I'm biased and obviously this isn't a great way to think, but I fully believe any accuser until given reason to not. It's my personal way of thinking and I'm not the law, so "innocent until proven guilty" doesn't have to apply to me I guess.

An estimated 63% of rapes go unreported. A study of reported rape case in 2000-2003 found 2.1% of rape allegations to be falsely reported. Among these false reports, some of the determining factors in classifying them as such included the victim not cooperating with investigators, delayed reporting, insufficient evidence, and statement inconsistencies from victims and witnesses. The false allegations are no higher than those for any other crime, but the victims of sexual violence are often accused of lying far far more than the victims of any other crime.

So basically I choose to believe anyone who claims it, because there's a 98& chance they're telling the truth.



this, pretty much
i'd rather support a potential victim than a potential rapist


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Muffin Man Platinum Sparx Gems: 5890
#12 Posted: 17:34:12 05/04/2018
Quote: CAV
As much as it pains me to say it, natural instinct would have me just a bit more skeptical of the claim than if it were a woman making it. Of course, though I wouldn't rule out the possibility and listen to the facts.


I think it's fair though, since men rape more. Men commit violent acts more in general by a very large percent, that's just a fact we have to deal with. We shouldn't base our judgements of individuals on statistics, but you can't just ignore them completely either.
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AestheticDragon Ripto Gems: 1658
#13 Posted: 03:56:40 06/04/2018
Don't believe ANYTHING until presented with evidence. That goes for every situation, not just the one you described.
KrystalLBX Emerald Sparx Gems: 3271
#14 Posted: 20:50:35 08/04/2018
seek more evidence
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Mad Jack1123 Yellow Sparx Gems: 1784
#15 Posted: 21:33:36 08/04/2018
Innocent until proven guilty no matter the scenario.
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parisruelz12 Diamond Sparx Gems: 7577
#16 Posted: 23:53:46 08/04/2018
a lot of rape cases usually boil down to he said/she said. b/c of this, the us is more inclined to believe the woman over the man. even if the guy was actually raped the courts are going to believe the woman over the guy, unless the guy can come up with substantial evidence.

i can usually tell when people are lying to me, and if i felt like the man was being sincere i would fight for him. if i felt like he was lying, i wouldn't.


thats just my two cents i guess
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sonicbrawler182 Platinum Sparx Gems: 7105
#17 Posted: 02:03:50 09/04/2018
Remain as objective and impartial as possible and hear both sides, and look for any evidence, but also verify that said evidence is legitimate.

That's really all I could do. If this situation were to actually happen though, I'd probably just make sure it's taken to court and sorted out there. Unless I was a witness, there isn't much I can contribute to the case and as such, it would be pointless to get involved. So I'd pass it onto people more qualified to deal with it.

I have no bias either way because the women in my life have displayed aggressive physical behaviour and mentally unsound behaviour as much, if not more frequently, than the men in my life. So both sexes/genders are the same to me really, in this context.
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icedragon333 Platinum Sparx Gems: 6076
#18 Posted: 07:57:50 09/04/2018
The courts would weigh the evidence and arrest the man for rape. My opinion wouldn't matter.
I honestly wouldn't put it past western judiciary systems to do that. Regardless of evidence.

Welcome to the modern world guys. It's a ****.

Edit: Seems like this forum now has a censor. Fair enough, I shall use less profane words in the future.
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