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Windumup Emerald Sparx Gems: 3217
#1 Posted: 00:39:56 11/01/2017 | Topic Creator
as Asexual.
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TheToyNerd Gold Sparx Gems: 2137
#2 Posted: 00:41:22 11/01/2017
Neat. Congratulations, my dude!
CAV Platinum Sparx Gems: 6430
#3 Posted: 00:46:19 11/01/2017
Two months.

I give it two months.
HeyitsHotDog Diamond Sparx Gems: 8984
#4 Posted: 00:50:50 11/01/2017
Uh, what? So, youre no longer a lesbian?
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Alydol Ripto Gems: 1330
#5 Posted: 00:52:03 11/01/2017
Yeah, it won't be long until a really hot person walks past you, then you'll never be asexual again. I knew I wasn't asexual because of... nevermind, you'll judge me if I tell you (he isn't anyone that famous, or previously that famous). But, I don't really believe that asexuality is really a thing, I believe it's a lack of attraction to everyone you've previously seen.
Windumup Emerald Sparx Gems: 3217
#6 Posted: 00:54:24 11/01/2017 | Topic Creator
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
Uh, what? So, youre no longer a lesbian?


Actually I am still a lesbian, I am homoromantic.
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HeyitsHotDog Diamond Sparx Gems: 8984
#7 Posted: 00:57:01 11/01/2017
Lemme get this straight, than. Pun intended half way though typing the sentence by the way.


You're asexual and from what I can gather, that means no SEXUAL attraction to anyone, right? Homoromantic means you like people of the same gender, which is woman, despite you currently being male, which you hope to transition to female in the coming years, making you an asexual, homoromantic, lesbian.
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TheToyNerd Gold Sparx Gems: 2137
#8 Posted: 00:58:22 11/01/2017
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
Lemme get this straight, than. Pun intended half way though typing the sentence by the way.


You're asexual and from what I can gather, that means no SEXUAL attraction to anyone, right? Homoromantic means you like people of the same gender, which is woman, despite you currently being male, which you hope to transition to female in the coming years, making you an asexual, homoromantic, lesbian.



Remember when people just ****ed? Peppridge Farms remembers...
Crash10 Emerald Sparx Gems: 4745
#9 Posted: 01:01:21 11/01/2017
Quote: TheToyNerd
Remember when people just ****ed?


Good times indeed.
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Windumup Emerald Sparx Gems: 3217
#10 Posted: 01:15:13 11/01/2017 | Topic Creator
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
Lemme get this straight, than. Pun intended half way though typing the sentence by the way.


You're asexual and from what I can gather, that means no SEXUAL attraction to anyone, right? Homoromantic means you like people of the same gender, which is woman, despite you currently being male, which you hope to transition to female in the coming years, making you an asexual, homoromantic, lesbian.



While my body is still male, it doesn't change me being current female.

And that is correct, I am a homoromantic lesbian who is also asexual
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CAV Platinum Sparx Gems: 6430
#11 Posted: 01:18:51 11/01/2017
Two months.
TheToyNerd Gold Sparx Gems: 2137
#12 Posted: 01:21:35 11/01/2017
Quote: Windumup
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
Lemme get this straight, than. Pun intended half way though typing the sentence by the way.


You're asexual and from what I can gather, that means no SEXUAL attraction to anyone, right? Homoromantic means you like people of the same gender, which is woman, despite you currently being male, which you hope to transition to female in the coming years, making you an asexual, homoromantic, lesbian.



While my body is still male, it doesn't change me being current female.

And that is correct, I am a homoromantic lesbian who is also asexual



My initial comment still stands. Not to be insensitive or anything, lord knows I don't wanna join the hate bandwagon for no good reason, but isn't there literally no difference between that and being a lesbian. I know sex and feels are two separate things, but if I'm being completely honest... Nobody will care to remember that.
HeyitsHotDog Diamond Sparx Gems: 8984
#13 Posted: 01:25:14 11/01/2017
Quote: CAV
Two months.



Until?
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Crash10 Emerald Sparx Gems: 4745
#14 Posted: 01:26:11 11/01/2017
Yeah. I think you should know that, technically, being a lesbian means you have sexual attraction to girls. This term doesn't refer to the feelings, just the sex. Don't wanna say you're wrong and hate on you. Just wanna let the stuff clear.

When you're asexual, you can get into a relationship with a man or a woman, since thr sex doesn't matter.
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CAV Platinum Sparx Gems: 6430
#15 Posted: 01:29:50 11/01/2017
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
Quote: CAV
Two months.



Until?


Things change back to normal.

I have a hard time thinking this isn't an attempt to try and get over women and relationships. I'm sorry.
Windumup Emerald Sparx Gems: 3217
#16 Posted: 01:30:01 11/01/2017 | Topic Creator
Quote: TheToyNerd
Quote: Windumup
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
Lemme get this straight, than. Pun intended half way though typing the sentence by the way.


You're asexual and from what I can gather, that means no SEXUAL attraction to anyone, right? Homoromantic means you like people of the same gender, which is woman, despite you currently being male, which you hope to transition to female in the coming years, making you an asexual, homoromantic, lesbian.



While my body is still male, it doesn't change me being current female.

And that is correct, I am a homoromantic lesbian who is also asexual



My initial comment still stands. Not to be insensitive or anything, lord knows I don't wanna join the hate bandwagon for no good reason, but isn't there literally no difference between that and being a lesbian. I know sex and feels are two separate things, but if I'm being completely honest... Nobody will care to remember that.


Let me put this in another way
I am a lesbian who is not sexually attracted to women, I still however love women and would love to go on dates with them and some day possibly get married to one.


Quote: Crash10
Yeah. I think you should know that, technically, being a lesbian means you have sexual attraction to girls. This term doesn't refer to the feelings, just the sex. Don't wanna say you're wrong and hate on you. Just wanna let the stuff clear.

When you're asexual, you can get into a relationship with a man or a woman, since thr sex doesn't matter.


In basic sense of the following words
Homosexual= Sexual attraction to the same gender
Homoromantic= Romantic attraction to the same gender
Lesbian= A girl that likes other girls


And no that is not what asexuality means, you are mistaking it for pan/bi sexuality.

I don't like guys at all (sexually or romantically), so actually no I can't be with a man or a woman. I can never see myself with a man
I do like women though, in a romantic way exclusively.
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Crash10 Emerald Sparx Gems: 4745
#17 Posted: 01:32:39 11/01/2017
I see. But, just asking, if you're not sexually attracted to woman, why you want a romantic relationship with only woman and not men? Just asking, since you don't have the sexual part.
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Bruh
HeyitsHotDog Diamond Sparx Gems: 8984
#18 Posted: 01:35:38 11/01/2017
Quote: CAV
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
Quote: CAV
Two months.



Until?


Things change back to normal.

I have a hard time thinking this isn't an attempt to try and get over women and relationships. I'm sorry.



I figured that's what you mean't, I'm with CAV on this one, to be honest.
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Seiki Platinum Sparx Gems: 6150
#19 Posted: 01:36:04 11/01/2017
Quote: CAV
Quote: HeyitsHotDog
Quote: CAV
Two months.



Until?


Things change back to normal.

I have a hard time thinking this isn't an attempt to try and get over women and relationships. I'm sorry.



I mean, I don't blame you. I hold a little skepticism myself after all of the posts about how hot certain women are and of how Windumup's posted about her fetish. I can recall a number of posts that seem to contradict it. Still, Imma just wait and see how it goes.

@ Windumup, that would be homoromantic-asexual. Adding the term lesbian is contradictory as it refers to a homosexual female, specifically with a sexual attraction in that regard.
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Big Green Platinum Sparx Gems: 6372
#20 Posted: 01:36:23 11/01/2017
have you considered the incel community?
King_PikaII Green Sparx Gems: 372
#21 Posted: 01:38:15 11/01/2017
Ace people do exist, people ace erasing in this thread make me sad, but I doubt you are, Windemup.

You just said that girls kissing was hot, which is sexual. It can be pretty, which is romantic, but hot is sexual. So I'm sorry, but you probably aren't ace.

Going from Ace to Gay/Straight/Pan/Bi isn't going back to normal though. It just means you didn't finish your self discovery until then. Some straight people think they're gay, and vise versa. Take your time.
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Windumup Emerald Sparx Gems: 3217
#22 Posted: 01:45:02 11/01/2017 | Topic Creator
Quote: Crash10
I see. But, just asking, if you're not sexually attracted to woman, why you want a romantic relationship with only woman and not men? Just asking, since you don't have the sexual part.

Because I can't see myself with a man, I like girls.


Quote: Seiki
Quote: CAV
Quote: HeyitsHotDog



Until?


Things change back to normal.

I have a hard time thinking this isn't an attempt to try and get over women and relationships. I'm sorry.



I mean, I don't blame you. I hold a little skepticism myself after all of the posts about how hot certain women are and of how Windumup's posted about her fetish. I can recall a number of posts that seem to contradict it. Still, Imma just wait and see how it goes.

@ Windumup, that would be homoromantic-asexual. Adding the term lesbian is contradictory as it refers to a homosexual female, specifically with a sexual attraction in that regard.


Lesbians are just girls who just like other girls (sexually and/or romantically) so it's not really contradictory.

I am a girl, I like only other girls.


As for the fetish part, I need to know which fetish you are referring to. If you are referring to DDLG, I am not into it sexually.
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somePerson Diamond Sparx Gems: 9574
#23 Posted: 01:47:00 11/01/2017
windumup thought of the day topic
84skylanderdude Platinum Sparx Gems: 5540
#24 Posted: 01:50:54 11/01/2017
Quote: CAV
Two days.


Fixed
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parisruelz12 Diamond Sparx Gems: 7577
#25 Posted: 02:27:26 11/01/2017
you understand that being attracted to someone at all means you want to **** that person, right? thats what attraction is


Quote: CAV
Two months.



I give it an hour. >.>
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CAV Platinum Sparx Gems: 6430
#26 Posted: 02:34:33 11/01/2017
Also I feel you're complicating this more than it has to be by constantly referring to lesbianism.

Homoromantic asexual. Done.
TheToyNerd Gold Sparx Gems: 2137
#27 Posted: 02:36:17 11/01/2017
Quote: parisruelz12
you understand that being attracted to someone at all means you want to **** that person, right? thats what attraction is



Dang! Stole my comment.

Yes, wanting to **** and wanting to date is the same thing chemically in our brains. Romance/Love is just a concept made up by humans and is just another way to say you want to have sex with someone. What you're saying is that you want to **** women but you don't want to actually **** right now.

No need to complicate this matter, dude.
wspyro Emerald Sparx Gems: 4422
#28 Posted: 02:37:18 11/01/2017
there's so many orientations lol
umm, well you do you, man..-err...human being...??????
King_PikaII Green Sparx Gems: 372
#29 Posted: 02:44:17 11/01/2017
Quote: TheToyNerd
Quote: parisruelz12
you understand that being attracted to someone at all means you want to **** that person, right? thats what attraction is



Dang! Stole my comment.

Yes, wanting to **** and wanting to date is the same thing chemically in our brains. Romance/Love is just a concept made up by humans and is just another way to say you want to have sex with someone. What you're saying is that you want to **** women but you don't want to actually **** right now.

No need to complicate this matter, dude.


Not true. I've felt attraction love towards people that has had nothing to do with sex. Obviously, it would be involved eventually, but I believe in the musical theatre brand of love. La La Land/Amelie brand of love.

It's a feeling of happiness and of feeling like you've got a song in your heart. That's how I feel.

Like, I'm not repulsed by sex, but that's not my primary interest.
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hardcoreignitor Gold Sparx Gems: 2583
#30 Posted: 03:10:37 11/01/2017
Congajudaism, friend! Enlcosed inthis link are like-minded individuals that you would just love to talk to!

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arceustheprime Ripto Gems: 5362
#31 Posted: 03:21:52 11/01/2017
like a month ago you were saying lesbians are hot and getting a new girlfriend every 0.5 seconds
ZapNorris Ripto Gems: 5109
#32 Posted: 03:26:08 11/01/2017
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(this is the only looping one i found)
Rendar Platinum Sparx Gems: 7201
#33 Posted: 03:35:18 11/01/2017
Yeah I do not believe you at all.
somePerson Diamond Sparx Gems: 9574
#34 Posted: 03:49:26 11/01/2017
Quote: arceustheprime
like a month ago you were saying lesbians are hot and getting a new girlfriend every 0.5 seconds



never forget hot lesbian sex
StriderSwag Gold Sparx Gems: 2769
#35 Posted: 03:56:26 11/01/2017
seeing this topic made me okay to die
King_PikaII Green Sparx Gems: 372
#36 Posted: 04:16:48 11/01/2017
Quote: somePerson
Quote: arceustheprime
like a month ago you were saying lesbians are hot and getting a new girlfriend every 0.5 seconds


never forget hot lesbian sex


Yeah, true.

Whenever Windumup makes a topic like this for attention, my heart hurts since it marginalizes the issues that real people face. Her going back and forth between different stances leads people to take our movement less seriously. Do I believe that she might be trying to find herself, sure. True love is a beautiful thing that doesn't require sex, if it's true love. But most likely, she's looking for attention

For me and for so many others' sake, please don't try to get attention like this. It hurts my heart.
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TheToyNerd Gold Sparx Gems: 2137
#37 Posted: 11:31:52 11/01/2017
Quote: Sesshomaru75
Quote: TheToyNerd
Dang! Stole my comment.

Yes, wanting to **** and wanting to date is the same thing chemically in our brains. Romance/Love is just a concept made up by humans and is just another way to say you want to have sex with someone. What you're saying is that you want to **** women but you don't want to actually **** right now.

No need to complicate this matter, dude.


While I agree that she's over-complicating the situation, I find it annoying that you're basically saying that there's no such thing as asexuality.

Mainly because there's more to attraction than just sexual attraction, so someone can still be attracted to other aspects of a person besides appearance.
This doesn't mean, however, that they want to have sex with another person, nor does it mean that they just "don't want to actually **** right now".

It's complicated because it's really not as simple as you're trying to make it out to be, but, as I said before, she is over-complicating it.
(Especially by still referring to herself as a lesbian despite claiming to be asexual)



I am never good with my wording and I apologize for making it seem like I thought asexuality is a myth. Heck, I know a guy who's probably asexual. The point still stands that it was a dumb over complication of a seemingly simple issue. I wouldn't know being a straight black man how any of this works nor will I ever understand fully. Why try and complicate the matter with random terms and such mashed together that seemingly contradict one another.

Yes, I know everyone has moved on I just felt like defending myself a bit
Muffin Man Platinum Sparx Gems: 5913
#38 Posted: 19:41:46 12/01/2017
To me, being asexual seems like it should mean that you have absolutely no sex drive, effectively as though your sex organs were removed at birth. Any sex drive at all would mean you are sexual, however slightly. Sometimes you might go through periods of very low libido, especially if you are experiencing depression or taking medication, but that is not the same as being asexual.
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ZapNorris Ripto Gems: 5109
#39 Posted: 21:45:58 12/01/2017
Quote: somePerson
Quote: arceustheprime
like a month ago you were saying lesbians are hot and getting a new girlfriend every 0.5 seconds



never forget hot lesbian sex



H O T
L E S B I A N
S E X
Crash10 Emerald Sparx Gems: 4745
#40 Posted: 22:10:05 12/01/2017
Quote: ZapNorris
Quote: somePerson
Quote: arceustheprime
like a month ago you were saying lesbians are hot and getting a new girlfriend every 0.5 seconds



never forget hot lesbian sex



H O T
L E S B I A N
S E X


L O T

S E S B I A N

H E X
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Thunderdragon14 Diamond Sparx Gems: 8425
#41 Posted: 22:14:33 12/01/2017
i recently came out as a flowergendered zoosexual werewolfkin but i didn't get a medal for it
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go back to whining about your fish
Bifrost Prismatic Sparx Gems: 11079
#42 Posted: 22:33:21 12/01/2017
Quote: Thunderdragon14
i recently came out as a flowergendered zoosexual werewolfkin but i didn't get a medal for it


Don't remind me of that time I found a Flight Rising profile where the person had like 3 paragraphs to explain why they're witchgendered and use space pronouns, with zero actual gender identity reasoning(something along the lines of 'I like witches and I like magic in my life').

I don't stray far from the in-game discussion after that one
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Wreckingball13 Gold Sparx Gems: 2583
#43 Posted: 22:54:30 12/01/2017
Quote: Bifrost
Quote: Thunderdragon14
i recently came out as a flowergendered zoosexual werewolfkin but i didn't get a medal for it


Don't remind me of that time I found a Flight Rising profile where the person had like 3 paragraphs to explain why they're witchgendered and use space pronouns, with zero actual gender identity reasoning(something along the lines of 'I like witches and I like magic in my life').

I don't stray far from the in-game discussion after that one


I'm gonna be the first witchgendered human in space!
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