darkSpyro

Known them for 11 years. Those guys suck

How do I make new friends? Anyone ever been excluded from a party?

I don't have best friends to know that feeling.

Sorry to hear about that though.

I've had that happen to me, it hurts, but I wouldn't let it get to you. Is there a reason they may have done that or is it possible they all thought one of the others would have invited you?

Nah, they're just jerks. They both knew, and eventually sent me a Snapchat video saying they were sorry as they all left. Really mean if you ask me.

Yeah...dunno what I did. :/

Sorry for that man. I know how it is to get excluded from stuff by friends.

If I can help ya... Well... One thing that might help making friends is going to fan events/meetings of something you like. Maybe it should help.

Never been excluded from a party, but I'm feeling pretty alienated from Skype at the moment.

It's at least partially my own fault.

If there's a lot of users on here who have been excluded from parties, maybe we could have our own darkSpyro party!

The same happened to me. I was incredibly p**** off.

Karma kicked in though, and one of my best friends got incredibly sick because of too much alcohol. They had to call an ambulance to take him to hospital, most of the neighbourhood was woken up and the party ended. My other best friends even had to face their parents at hospital and answer uncomfortable questions. Suddenly, many parents (including my own) considered me as the "smart, responsible guy" who knows how to keep out of trouble, which is very advantageous in terms or being allowed to hang out with nearly everybody.

Few years later one of my ex best friends admitted he spent most of the night thinking that that wouldn't have happened if they have invited me.

Since then, I love Karma.

My advice? Well, they don't care much about you if they didn't invite you, they even texted you when they party was over which make things even worse imo. Try to make new friends but don't burn all the brdiges with these b****ds, you never kow if you are gonna need them moreover.

Most of my friends are from school or work or friends of friends, maybe you could try hanging out with people who are just acquaintances more and see how that goes?

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Never been excluded from a party, but I'm feeling pretty alienated from Skype at the moment.

It's at least partially my own fault.

I'm going to message you after work. I'm out super early today. <3

What's worst is throwing a party, and then nobody you invite comes

What's a party?

have they invited you in the past?
i would get invited but i rejected all the time that eventually they stopped asking.
that was around my middle school time tho, when i had friends that partied. ever since hs, my friends haven't been party people.

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Don't let it get to you bro. Find new friends. It takes time but it's worth it.

Yeah from my experience if they stop inviting you to ALMOST ALL things they don't like you and it is time for you to focus on other people.

There will always be reasons for the odd time you aren't invited, like a party where you don't know anyone but them etc, but if it's happening all the time then they aren't real friends.

That happened to me this year too man, it happens. Feels bad but it happens.

My friend in question USED to be my best friend, but we simply drifted off due to our interests and personality. We have around the same general interests and talk about them, but our differences is where our obsessions lie. Sadly whatever we were obsessed about never fell in line with each other, and since it was the only things we've ever talked about we slowly became uninterested in our conversations. But we still kept in touch; I've known her for 9 years.

But we didn't fight recently - she even invited me to go ice skating before Christmas, but I couldn't attend because I told her I was gonna be out of town until the 27th. Feels bad and weird man.

Thanks for the responses guys. I appreciate it.

Apparently they invited two people over "who brought more people over" and they all got stupid wasted. Whatever. I highly doubt that story...it just sounds like they must think I'm a buzzkill. I drink, but not very often. Everyone there was apparently slammed.

I've been invited to a lot of their parties before, so idk what to think. It's making me feel pretty bad.

I'm sorry to here that, some people suck and don't consider other people's feelings. Best thing to do is forget about them and find better people who won't treat you that way. I know it hurts, but I hope things look up for you, man.

Kick their arses.

Heheheh, well I wouldn't know anything about not being included by my friends or anything, not Mr. Popular here, not me heheh >.>


All jokes aside,
It really sucks to have your friends not invite you to something and then rub it in your face, it happens to me alot and I guess I gotten used to it. If you need a friend or just someone to talk to I'm always here!

I know how it feels, people do that to me all the time.

It's probably time to get new friends, if they send you a snapchat instead of talking to you in person, then they might not be sorry.