darkSpyro

First please don't make a joke or laugh about me. this is serious and depressing to me.
Now today after school i waited for my gf (together since may and hang out almost everyday.)
Then she came out of class, and we walked, i asked her why she lagged behing and she said she has a meeting with the principal. the principal is sick so i knew she was lying.
i paced down the stairs and up the other stairs leading up, and found her in the same spot, and near my best friend. then he touched her ass, and then he pinned her to the locker and they started kissing. for long. the they disconected and he touched her boobs, and that was enough for me. i dont know if they had sex, but i hope very much not. i mean dude! thats my girl (and he knows it) and were all underage!
what do i do with life?

dump her, she doesn't deserve you

Drop her sorry ass and ***** slap your former best friend.

^What they said

Also, try not to suddenly corner them about this. You'll probably need to do so at some point, but not suddenly because your girlfriend might know that you think somethings up.

Also, you're back? Nice, how did your parents let you come back? (At least I think it was you that were no longer allowed to go onto dS anymore)

Dump her, and forget your best friend too. They clearly don't respect you.

What the hell you're like 14. Honestly though, I'd follow Seiki's advice.

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I hope something like this happens to you and someone would laugh at you.

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Drop her sorry ass and ***** slap your former best friend.

once more for the people in the back

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thsi was so necessary for u to post wasnt it

anyway talk to her about it if you want, but if this is too much just end both relationships.

Dump her and sever all connections with your "friend". Seriously you don't need people like that in your life.

ur like 14.. why is your age group so obsessed with sex?!

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Drop her sorry ass and ***** slap your former best friend.

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Always remember: If there isn't trust in a relationship, there is no relationship.

before anything you should probably talk to her brah

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she clearly wasn't dedicated to you, break up with her

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dump her, she doesn't deserve you

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Drop her sorry ass and ***** slap your former best friend.

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Dump her, and forget your best friend too. They clearly don't respect you.

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Dump her and sever all connections with your "friend". Seriously you don't need people like that in your life.

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Basically what everyone else has said above, break up with her. You'll find someone better.

thanks captain obvious x6

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ur like 14.. why is your age group so obsessed with sex?!

gotcha covered paris

hci at your service

to be fair he probably wants an answer with more depth instead of break up with her a million times
but idk. you should discuss this with her, being up front is the best way to tackle a situation like this. if you still really want to be with her then communicate your boundaries and give her a second chance, however, if she cheats on you again then it may be best to end it. you're both still very young and inexperienced with relationships, there's a lot of mistakes to be had.

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Ok, you want in-depth, here we go.

Don't bother with a second chance. She clearly isn't worth your time. If it was a one time thing and she apologized and felt bad about it, this would be different. Given the above described scenario, I can only discern that this likely isn't the first time and she's very much been fooling around behind your back for awhile now with no remorse whatsoever. Such a person is a soulless whore driven only by desires that I can tell you want more than that of a relationship. Yeah, it's gonna hurt for awhile and it'll suck, but she isn't worth it and you should leave someone who doesn't care enough about you to stay faithful like that and work on finding someone better. Besides, you're in what, Jr. High? MAYBE High School? The likelihood of finding the one you'll be with forever is quite low as it is.

As for your best friend, if he was truly your friend, he'd care enough about you to to have messed with her in the first place and to have told you if she had tried to instigate anything (dunno how it started, speaking hypothetically if she had). He clearly cares more about what's in her pants then he does about your friendship. Continuing a friendship with him would likely only be unhealthy for you as he betrayed your trust and who's to say he wouldn't again at some point down the line? Don't know how long you've been friends for you to call him a best friend, but really the best choice is to cut him from your life and find better friends who do care about you.

I know it isn't going to be that easy to just cut them from your life and move on, yes it'll hurt, yes it'll suck for awhile, but that's ok. Talk with your other friends about it and have them there to help you through it. Things are going to be hard for awhile if you do (and rather should) cut the two of them from your life, but you will get through, and you will be ok.

In short: "Drop her sorry ass and ***** slap your former best friend."

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ur like 14.. why is your age group so obsessed with sex?!

gotcha covered paris

hci at your service

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seiki, me and that asshole were "friends" for around 12 years, from before preschool

Welcome to life.

Something very similar happen to me at your age. I would suggest you tell your mother about it, as she will be extremely supportive and give you good advice.

What she has done is very mean.

She could have gone with wathever guy, but she choosed your best friend.

She could have told you the truth, but she choosed to lie.

Do you want someone that mean at your side? No, you don't.

Break up with her, and remember to tell her how a bad person she is for doing all that.

As for your friends, well, start building other friendships that really care about you. Life is about good decisions.

Can't help with the relationship part, but can help with the friend part. I've had friends for 10 years that just discarded me once they found out I was moving away; never heard back from them, attempts to meet up were just apathetically listening to me and running back to their parents once I was done wasting their fun. Time unfortunately doesn't fix jerks; you have to keep the ones that truly care first.

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seiki, me and that asshole were "friends" for around 12 years, from before preschool

Damn... I mean, I don't entirely advise it considering what happened, but if you did truly want to salvage that friendship, you could talk with him about it and get more of a full story on the matter. Naturally, he would absolutely need to understand that he is in the wrong and if you detect that he isn't truly 100% sorry for what he did, and isn't interested in trying to make up to you for the fact that he went betrayed you like that, then I would say for sure he isn't worth it. Ending a friendship that has been going for that long is going to be a real *****, and will probably hurt more than losing your girlfriend over it. You would be a better judge of his character than I would since you know him and I don't.

If you do go that route, and he ends up blaming everything entirely on her and tries to make it seem like he's good and wanted to tell you, then I'd suggest getting another side of the story, possibly hers, and figure out who's lying. Regardless, I'd remain skeptical of how much he really does care about you if I were you if he did try to pin all the blame on her. Still, talk things over with other friends for sure as they'll know more about the two of them and be a bit better judge of character then a random guy on the internet.

Bifrost also makes a very good point in that even if the friendship has been going that long, things can change over time, people can change as they grow up, and not always for the better. It is entirely your choice on what to do for the matter, I just want to let you know you do have that option if you truly wanted to pursue it.

thanks all of you that posted (except zap (Edit:and taco)) and you are awesome. i am gonna give this asshole a piece of my mind and as for that slut... man screw her

I don't mean to sound rude but I really don't believe this story :P There's that possibility that you're telling the truth, but it's far too stretched out for me to think this is real.

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thanks all of you that posted (except zap) and you are awesome. i am gonna give this asshole a piece of my mind and as for that slut... man screw her

though if i may, one word of advice

try not to do anything that'll come to bite you in the ass down the line later

girls, especially at that age, talk and stuff, y'know?

so don't go overboard and do something you'll regret

but hey what do i know

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I don't mean to sound rude but I really don't believe this story There's that possibility that you're telling the truth, but it's far too stretched out for me to think this is real.

I don't really see how this is "stretched out", tbh. :/ Plus, I don't see what the point would be in making this situation up.

"touching her ass" "touching her boobs." I don't know about 12 year olds, but the teens in my school are pretty controlled with their sexual urges. I'm just not seeing this version of the story as being true, and it sounds to me that OP is exaggerating the story. The kissing is the only thing that sounds believable here to me, but hey, what do I know I'm not OP

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I don't mean to sound rude but I really don't believe this story There's that possibility that you're telling the truth, but it's far too stretched out for me to think this is real.

I don't really see how this is "stretched out", tbh. :/ Plus, I don't see what the point would be in making this situation up.

"touching her ass" "touching her boobs." I don't know about 12 year olds, but the teens in my school are pretty controlled with their sexual urges. I'm just not seeing this version of the story as being true, and it sounds to me that OP is exaggerating the story. The kissing is the only thing that sounds believable here to me, but hey, what do I know I'm not OP

you clearly haven't been to a middle school in the past 4 years

having to be grouped up with middle schoolers on the high school bus, trust me, they want to touch **** and these airheaded females let them.

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I don't really see how this is "stretched out", tbh. :/ Plus, I don't see what the point would be in making this situation up.

"touching her ass" "touching her boobs." I don't know about 12 year olds, but the teens in my school are pretty controlled with their sexual urges. I'm just not seeing this version of the story as being true, and it sounds to me that OP is exaggerating the story. The kissing is the only thing that sounds believable here to me, but hey, what do I know I'm not OP

1. PopFizz is 14, according to his Guestbook, at least.
2. Kids were extremely sexually driven at the middle school I went to. I've seen other kids in that age group that are extremely perverted as well.
3. I was friends with a 12 year old who had sex with a 16 year old.
4. I lost my virginity when I was 14. (Not that I'm proud of it, though)
5. Once again, I don't see what PopFizz would have to gain out of making a situation like this up.

thanks man

Break up with that *****.

i broke up with her. just walked by and said "it's over".

wtf, the people at your school are savage compaired to mine. You handled it the right way. Your ex sounds like a major d-bag

wtf last time I saw you, weren't you like 10 and were really stupid on the forums???

That's pretty rude. Being a bit too ahead of his age aside, PopFizzMagic got more maturity in a year than several young users here have.

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That's pretty rude. Being a bit too ahead of his age aside, PopFizzMagic got more maturity than a year than several young users here have.

awwww that's nice!

Well, it's true. I still see some users who also started last year ish or around TT who kinda don't take anything seriously and get up in arms when people want to be serious or had enough joking around, even those that moved to other sections.

tfw you're the same age as PFM

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tfw you're the same age as PFM

>tfw you're a year younger


dang i felt like I was gone for a while, apparently not enough to grow up a lot

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wtf last time I saw you, weren't you like 10 and were really stupid on the forums???

I was 11. I'm 13 now actually