darkSpyro

I will be expecting jokes, so no worries on that, this is S&N, after all.

So I have my cousin and my Aunt who live with me, and they're really not nice people, and they cause my family a lot of stress, and money.

They are both liars, manipulative, and like to make others feel bad. And if I ignore my cousin, she'll just try to get me to feel bad for her, so I give in. My Aunt tries to make my mom feel bad for her by making up stupid lies that are really unbelievable, and whines and cries, saying she'll move or something, but never does. And my cousin and I have had many other bad experiences, along with Rin added in there in some.

Do you guys know how to help or something? These two people are what causes 85% of my stress, and I understand if you want to take this as a joke, this is Stuff and Nonsense.

You know I'm surprised they weren't kicked out at this point.

How long has this been going on for?

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You know I'm surprised they weren't kicked out at this point.

How long has this been going on for?

My mom doesn't like to be mean to people, and she doesn't want to kick out my Aunt since she has already been kicked out for this behavior before...

It's been going on ever since November 2015.

At this point I'd still just want to kick them out... no use housing douchey people. Blood relations don't mean much really.

I think the best, and biggest thing is to realize how much you matter as a person. It's horrible what they're doing to you, I'm sure. But you have to ask yourself, "What have I done wrong to deserve this?" I think the best thing to do is have a serious talk with your mom about this, tell her about how much duress you're in. You're her daughter first and foremost and hopefully she can work with you to get past these trials and tribulations. Other things could be more minor, like keeping a diary/blog to vent in, envisioning a happy place, or just trying to stay away from them. I apologize if all of this seems commonplace and stereotypical, but I'm sure everyone here on DS wants you to feel better and get through this, don't be afraid to PM people if you really need them/want to talk.

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You know I'm surprised they weren't kicked out at this point.

How long has this been going on for?

My mom doesn't like to be mean to people, and she doesn't want to kick out my Aunt since she has already been kicked out for this behavior before...

It's been going on ever since November 2015.

So almost an entire year. I can understand that, but if I was in that situation it's either they make serious change or I kick them out.

As for advice I'm not really one to talk to for that kind of stuff....

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I think the best, and biggest thing is to realize how much you matter as a person. It's horrible what they're doing to you, I'm sure. But you have to ask yourself, "What have I done wrong to deserve this?" I think the best thing to do is have a serious talk with your mom about this, tell her about how much duress you're in. You're her daughter first and foremost and hopefully she can work with you to get past these trials and tribulations. Other things could be more minor, like keeping a diary/blog to vent in, envisioning a happy place, or just trying to stay away from them. I apologize if all of this seems commonplace and stereotypical, but I'm sure everyone here on DS wants you to feel better and get through this, don't be afraid to PM people if you really need them/want to talk.

I've been talking to people, and I've talked with my mom, she says that we just have to deal with it until they finally move.

Your mom needs to kick them out if they are being abusive.

-GarbageMemes101

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Quote: ThefirstNapkin

I think the best, and biggest thing is to realize how much you matter as a person. It's horrible what they're doing to you, I'm sure. But you have to ask yourself, "What have I done wrong to deserve this?" I think the best thing to do is have a serious talk with your mom about this, tell her about how much duress you're in. You're her daughter first and foremost and hopefully she can work with you to get past these trials and tribulations. Other things could be more minor, like keeping a diary/blog to vent in, envisioning a happy place, or just trying to stay away from them. I apologize if all of this seems commonplace and stereotypical, but I'm sure everyone here on DS wants you to feel better and get through this, don't be afraid to PM people if you really need them/want to talk.

I've been talking to people, and I've talked with my mom, she says that we just have to deal with it until they finally move.

That's an issue, stress to your mom the seriousness of this situation, charity and sisterly love is all fine and dandy, but when they're becoming a leech/detriment to your health, that's when they need to go.

I've put up with this situation myself since I was very little. My pathetic excuse for mother is very much the same way as your aunt. She treated me, my sister and my father HORRIBLY when she lived with us, so we threw her out three times. Since then, she never came back to cause trouble for us. It's just been me, my father, my sister and now my brother-in-law, and that's just the way I like it. MUCH better than having to deal with that monster any day of the week.

Oh, I forgot to mention the only reason why she hasn't moved is because she is low on money, who would be fine if she didn't spend it all on my cousin.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but your mom needs to grow a spine and kick them out. Especially if they're causing money problems. Because if it continues, they'll eat you out of house and home.