Quote: WindumupQuote: parisruelz12
Why do you need a girlfriend so badly? Not getting on you, legit curious.
I'm not about that single life I would rather have a head on my shoulder and not watch movies/tv shows/anime alone.
A word of advice. Don't try so hard to seek one out. It is only likely to lead to unstable relationships that last but a moment. Take time, let things happen naturally to find someone you are truly compatible with. Someone who you may truly fall in love and have a life with.
I understand not wanting to be alone, trust me, I do. I'm an only child who's dad was always more interested in what on TV than in me and who's mother was always either at work or asleep. Friends didn't invite me over to their houses, so any time outside of school was spent alone in my room. It sucked, but of course I found ways to ignore the loneliness and not let it get to me. But constantly trying to actively seek someone out to avoid it isn't going to help and may lead to finding the wrong kind of people in an act of desperation. I didn't have my first relationship until I was 19, and that wasn't even intentional, more a happy accident. Even then, I still have yet to meet him face to face and still spend a lot of time alone in my room when I'm not at school.
If you're so worried about being alone, then find ways to distract yourself. Let a relationship come naturally when the time is right and when you meet the right person.
bolded: HOLY O.O YOU HAVE THE LIKE SAME LIFE AS ME!
And in my experience I have to ALWAYS be the one who asks first, I never had a girlfriend where I am the one being asked out (ok ONE girl asked me, but I had less then zero feelings for her. She was not my type at all, and not even cute).
If there is a girl out there looking for me, she hasn't met me or is too nervous to ask.