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If anyone cares to answer,


Lets say this happened,

Someone told someone that you like them, and they stopped talking to you, and you want to talk to them. You don't want to make it awkward or anything, and you realllly want to talk to this person. What do you do? EDIT: Oh also say this person has liked you for about ever sense you found out, but you guys never talked about feelings, only talked about games ect? Also say this person may have liked you sense he first met you, also also also say he knew your name before you knew his.... Hypothetically speaking, of course.

Hypothetically speaking, of course.

"Hypothetically speaking" is pretty much universal code for "this happened to you". I've been on this ****ty Earth long enough, this isn't my first rodeo.

Best thing to do is give it time. Usually everything works itself out eventually. If he ends up liking you, good! The thing happened! If he wants to just be friends and no longer feels that way, that's fine. From personal experience, don't be bitter about it is he does, it'll tear you apart. If he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, that's fine, you'll find someone else anyways.

Also, from what I recall, you're fairly young, don't expect to find someone you'll spend the rest of your life with right now. Even high school sweethearts crash and burn eventually.

Just take extreme caution with dating, okay? It'd be a shame for you to suffer from a broken heart this early on in your life.

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"Hypothetically speaking" is pretty much universal code for "this happened to you". I've been on this ****ty Earth long enough, this isn't my first rodeo.

Best thing to do is give it time. Usually everything works itself out eventually. If he ends up liking you, good! The thing happened! If he wants to just be friends and no longer feels that way, that's fine. From personal experience, don't be bitter about it is he does, it'll tear you apart. If he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, that's fine, you'll find someone else anyways.

Also, from what I recall, you're fairly young, don't expect to find someone you'll spend the rest of your life with right now. Even high school sweethearts crash and burn eventually.

Just take extreme caution with dating, okay? It'd be a shame for you to suffer from a broken heart this early on in your life.

To late, the broken heart is already here :L

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Quote: StriderSwag

"Hypothetically speaking" is pretty much universal code for "this happened to you". I've been on this ****ty Earth long enough, this isn't my first rodeo.

Best thing to do is give it time. Usually everything works itself out eventually. If he ends up liking you, good! The thing happened! If he wants to just be friends and no longer feels that way, that's fine. From personal experience, don't be bitter about it is he does, it'll tear you apart. If he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, that's fine, you'll find someone else anyways.

Also, from what I recall, you're fairly young, don't expect to find someone you'll spend the rest of your life with right now. Even high school sweethearts crash and burn eventually.

Just take extreme caution with dating, okay? It'd be a shame for you to suffer from a broken heart this early on in your life.

To late, the broken heart is already here :L

You don't know that just yet, he hasn't said anything yet, right? Just let everything play out.
Also, fun tip: Don't give up hope yet, but don't expect anything either. It'll lessen the blow if something bad happens.

Quote: StriderSwag

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Quote: StriderSwag

"Hypothetically speaking" is pretty much universal code for "this happened to you". I've been on this ****ty Earth long enough, this isn't my first rodeo.

Best thing to do is give it time. Usually everything works itself out eventually. If he ends up liking you, good! The thing happened! If he wants to just be friends and no longer feels that way, that's fine. From personal experience, don't be bitter about it is he does, it'll tear you apart. If he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, that's fine, you'll find someone else anyways.

Also, from what I recall, you're fairly young, don't expect to find someone you'll spend the rest of your life with right now. Even high school sweethearts crash and burn eventually.

Just take extreme caution with dating, okay? It'd be a shame for you to suffer from a broken heart this early on in your life.

To late, the broken heart is already here :L

You don't know that just yet, he hasn't said anything yet, right? Just let everything play out.
Also, fun tip: Don't give up hope yet, but don't expect anything either. It'll lessen the blow if something bad happens.

Right, but he hasn't been talking to me, so that worries me. We were really good friends, and one of my only. OH WELL! Now going back to 1 friend

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To late, the broken heart is already here :L

You don't know that just yet, he hasn't said anything yet, right? Just let everything play out.
Also, fun tip: Don't give up hope yet, but don't expect anything either. It'll lessen the blow if something bad happens.

Right, but he hasn't been talking to me, so that worries me. We were really good friends, and one of my only. OH WELL! Now going back to 1 friend

Still, just try to take a few days off, let all involved parties cool down. You don't need anymore drama, trust me.

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To late, the broken heart is already here :L

You don't know that just yet, he hasn't said anything yet, right? Just let everything play out.
Also, fun tip: Don't give up hope yet, but don't expect anything either. It'll lessen the blow if something bad happens.

Right, but he hasn't been talking to me, so that worries me. We were really good friends, and one of my only. OH WELL! Now going back to 1 friend

He could be just as nervous about the situation as you are and just doesn't know what to do. If you still want to talk to him without pursuing a relationship, you could always try and act like nothing is wrong, that nobody likes anybody and just go on talking about games or whatever.

Quote: StriderSwag

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Quote: StriderSwag

You don't know that just yet, he hasn't said anything yet, right? Just let everything play out.
Also, fun tip: Don't give up hope yet, but don't expect anything either. It'll lessen the blow if something bad happens.

Right, but he hasn't been talking to me, so that worries me. We were really good friends, and one of my only. OH WELL! Now going back to 1 friend

Still, just try to take a few days off, let all involved parties cool down. You don't need anymore drama, trust me.

You wanna hear drama? Trust me, I got it in my house hold, not at this very moment, at least -.-

Quote: Seiki

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You don't know that just yet, he hasn't said anything yet, right? Just let everything play out.
Also, fun tip: Don't give up hope yet, but don't expect anything either. It'll lessen the blow if something bad happens.

Right, but he hasn't been talking to me, so that worries me. We were really good friends, and one of my only. OH WELL! Now going back to 1 friend

He could be just as nervous about the situation as you are and just doesn't know what to do. If you still want to talk to him without pursuing a relationship, you could always try and act like nothing is wrong, that nobody likes anybody and just go on talking about games or whatever.

He'll probably ask about it though! D: I dunno wat 2 do ;~;

Greeble time

We've established the hypothetical person is you, so here's what i would do in your situation:

It may seem like you're heart broken, but first loves tend to do that.

Text him and say that you want to meet, then once you're alone you'll have time to sort things out properly.

Remember it's just just you that will be feeling awkward, because things like this are a big step for both of you.

If it turns out he's not ready don't push things, it's better to have him as a friend than not at all.

Also if you want drama kid, come to Chez Greeble, we wrote the book, screenplay and produced the movie

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Greeble time

We've established the hypothetical person is you, so here's what i would do in your situation:

It may seem like you're heart broken, but first loves tend to do that.

Text him and say that you want to meet, then once you're alone you'll have time to sort things out properly.

Remember it's just just you that will be feeling awkward, because things like this are a big step for both of you.

If it turns out he's not ready don't push things, it's better to have him as a friend than not at all.

Also if you want drama kid, come to Chez Greeble, we wrote the book, screenplay and produced the movie

Well, for starters, we both dont have phones.... so that plan doesn't work out...

Eevee not trying to be rude here but........................... You deserve better.

Funny I feel like i'm a person in your question Eevee strange....yeah my problems involve becoming more anti social and stress has been affecting me I feel like that person does not want to hang around with an idiot like me we had a good friendship but I feel to distant now don't know what to do know guess i'm to deep in the abyss...(Wake me up! Wake me up inside!)....so yeah strange just seeing this...but Eevee try to just keep a close relationship try not to be to distant i guess and always manage and work towards your life goals instead of focusing just on a relationship don't let stress get you. That's some advice i could give you from some experience just making sure you don't end up like me.

Eevee if I were you I would take StriderSwags' advice and Seikis' advice as well. I do feel bad for you cause you said you have a broken heart. I know what it feels like to be heart broke, not a good feeling at all. You're a bit too young for this to happen to you so please just take their advice, alright?

Quote: Eevee88

Quote: Greeble

Greeble time

We've established the hypothetical person is you, so here's what i would do in your situation:

It may seem like you're heart broken, but first loves tend to do that.

Text him and say that you want to meet, then once you're alone you'll have time to sort things out properly.

Remember it's just just you that will be feeling awkward, because things like this are a big step for both of you.

If it turns out he's not ready don't push things, it's better to have him as a friend than not at all.

Also if you want drama kid, come to Chez Greeble, we wrote the book, screenplay and produced the movie

Well, for starters, we both dont have phones.... so that plan doesn't work out...

Kids, no imagination...

Write him a note then, it will have the same effect.

Quote: Rin

Eevee not trying to be rude here but........................... You deserve better.

Eh, It's not my fault I love him. We have the same likes, I'll tell you in a pm.

Quote: Reverse0456

Funny I feel like i'm a person in your question Eevee strange....yeah my problems involve becoming more anti social and stress has been affecting me I feel like that person does not want to hang around with an idiot like me we had a good friendship but I feel to distant now don't know what to do know guess i'm to deep in the abyss...(Wake me up! Wake me up inside!)....so yeah strange just seeing this...but Eevee try to just keep a close relationship try not to be to distant i guess and always manage and work towards your life goals instead of focusing just on a relationship don't let stress get you. That's some advice i could give you from some experience just making sure you don't end up like me.

Well, that'll be hard cause he is a grade lower then me, where I belong... ;(

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Eevee if I were you I would take StriderSwags' advice and Seikis' advice as well. I do feel bad for you cause you said you have a broken heart. I know what it feels like to be heart broke, not a good feeling at all. You're a bit too young for this to happen to you so please just take their advice, alright?

I'll try, thank you!

Quote: Greeble

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Quote: Greeble

Greeble time

We've established the hypothetical person is you, so here's what i would do in your situation:

It may seem like you're heart broken, but first loves tend to do that.

Text him and say that you want to meet, then once you're alone you'll have time to sort things out properly.

Remember it's just just you that will be feeling awkward, because things like this are a big step for both of you.

If it turns out he's not ready don't push things, it's better to have him as a friend than not at all.

Also if you want drama kid, come to Chez Greeble, we wrote the book, screenplay and produced the movie

Well, for starters, we both dont have phones.... so that plan doesn't work out...

Kids, no imagination...

Write him a note then, it will have the same effect.

I plan on giving him a secret Valentine Card for Valentines day, cause they are already selling that stuff.

Darn us, kids!

Quote: Eevee88

I plan on giving him a secret Valentine Card for Valentines day, cause they are already selling that stuff.

Darn us, kids!

GET HIM A STAR WARS ONE THAT ALWAYS WORKS

Quote: StriderSwag

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I plan on giving him a secret Valentine Card for Valentines day, cause they are already selling that stuff.

Darn us, kids!

GET HIM A STAR WARS ONE THAT ALWAYS WORKS

Well, he does have a SW sweat shirt...

I am giving him a kitten one, as I picked that out. I am sure he'll be counfused.... Really counfused...

My advice? Enjoy elementary school, don't worry about dating until like middle school. :|


Just saying.