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xXBeavcoonXx Gold Sparx Gems: 2648
#9851 Posted: 05:00:55 29/12/2015
Quote: Cynderfan507
I'm back after being sort of gone for a bit! x3
I've been playing some of my new games so I probably won't be around that much for a while.


Wooooooooooooooooooooooo
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now its time to get funky
whirlwind fan Platinum Sparx Gems: 5822
#9852 Posted: 06:02:58 29/12/2015
Quote: Sesshomaru75
Quote: whirlwind fan
Why are people giving this kid attention? This kid is probably too young to understand the internet. They'll probably look back on time and laugh at their naivety.


She's literally two days older than me, though.



Oh I didn't realise that. @Aura24, she does? Well that explains it then.

To be honest, I forgot this was the L&RT. But I don't think she'll be gone for long.
Edited 1 time - Last edited at 12:28:16 29/12/2015 by whirlwind fan
StriderSwag Gold Sparx Gems: 2769
#9853 Posted: 06:36:13 29/12/2015
Quote: Cynderfan507
I'm back after being sort of gone for a bit! x3
I've been playing some of my new games so I probably won't be around that much for a while.



Welcome back!!
Bifrost Prismatic Sparx Gems: 10891
#9854 Posted: 12:17:17 29/12/2015
A mental illness doesn't help but c'mon, a nice or rude person comes before that. I recall reading she was over 18 but I couldn't remember if I was mixing thing so didn't speak up; in that case there was long enough time to at least know how forgiveness and selfishness actually work, but guess only some harsh reality can fix this now.

I won't pick on or whatever, just say what I think it's true and that it feels like the flamewars will continue as long as she comes back learning nothing, with the usual suspects or someone else.
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SO I'LL GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT
(What I need is never what I want)
Edited 1 time - Last edited at 12:19:43 29/12/2015 by Bifrost
thumper Ripto Gems: 3519
#9855 Posted: 13:16:46 29/12/2015
Quote: Cynderfan507
I'm back after being sort of gone for a bit! x3
I've been playing some of my new games so I probably won't be around that much for a while.


Welcome back!
Wreckingball13 Gold Sparx Gems: 2583
#9856 Posted: 14:41:55 29/12/2015
Quote: Cynderfan507
I'm back after being sort of gone for a bit! x3
I've been playing some of my new games so I probably won't be around that much for a while.



Welcome back
AvatariDragon Platinum Sparx Gems: 6231
#9857 Posted: 19:55:51 31/12/2015
I've been thinking about this for awhile, and I think it's time for me to leave. I don't know if it's because I have changed, or if the site/user base has changed, but I don't really enjoy it here anymore. I don't have much to contribute because I'm not interested in or can't relate to many of the topics being posted, and when I do post I feel like I'm ignored a lot of the time anyway. I'm just not needed here anymore, assuming I was ever actually needed. And while some of y'all may say or think differently, I doubt I'm really wanted here either. Don't get me wrong, I am grateful to the friends that I have made here, but on the forum in general I seem to be more of a social outcast than anything else, or at least that's how I feel a lot of the time. I suppose that's my own fault for not being more social or even more approachable, but at the same time that's just how I am and I can't really change that. I thought I could be more myself online, or rather someone I would like to be, but it seems even that has a limit.

Also, it seems like this place gives me more grief than anything else. I joined this site thinking it would be a good escape from real life problems, and I could make friends and have a good time. But honestly if it wasn't for meeting scf and a couple other friends, I would say that I wish I had never joined this site at all. I will admit that the first couple of years here were nice, but it seems like this place has turned into a very unwelcoming and unfriendly community. It almost feels like Tumblr in a way; if a user doesn't fit y'all's standards you go after them like it's some sort of witch hunt. It's like some of y'all have formed little cliques and stick with that while treating everyone else badly, or ignoring them completely. And it seems like if there's even the smallest opportunity to pick on someone, some of you are a little too quick to take it. The sad part is that issues like this have been discussed before but nobody seems to care enough to change it. Obviously not everyone acts like this though, and it's not all the time, and I am far from being perfect myself, but I've been here long enough to see these things. I feel like I've been watching all of this from the sidelines. You know I'm there but I'm not important enough to recognize, which is why I never really bothered discussing this before. I would often feel dread when I'm about to come on here but I would still do it since it's part of my routine or whatever and I never really had anything better to do. I would often get stressed or annoyed or even angry, or I'll feel bad about myself because I keep comparing myself to others or I'll say something that ends up getting ignored or sounding stupid or taken the wrong way. And none of that helps my depression at all. I can't really blame y'all for making it worse because some of it is my own fault and I should learn to control my feelings and emotions a bit more. But still, enough is enough.

I keep telling myself that it's only a website, but I've been here for quite awhile now, and I have history tied to this site, so it's difficult for me to say that this place isn't important. So all of that just makes the negative feelings that much worse, especially since I always considered this place to be like a second home. It really hasn't been all bad, but as the saying goes, "All good things must come to an end." And anyway, I'm pretty busy with school, so all of these negative feelings and distractions aren't good for school life, and even for life in general. So that's why I'm leaving now, to start the new year off fresh.

That being said, if there are actually people who would like to stay in touch, I'll still log on every now and then to check messages. But I'd like to log on here as little as possible, so if you want to talk frequently I'll give you my Skype or Tumblr name or something. Who knows, I might end up coming back eventually, because as much as I hate to admit it, this site is rather addicting. But don't count on it, so don't expect anything from Avatari anymore.

Thanks for all of the memories, and happy new year.

Bye bye~
StriderSwag Gold Sparx Gems: 2769
#9858 Posted: 20:05:11 31/12/2015
I've decided I'm gonna leave for a while, or at the very most be much less active. I've lost interest in the sute and its drama and stuff, and I'd rather invest my time is something that isn't here. I'll probs be in Video Games if I'm on at all.

I just want some time to myself for a while, maybe work on betting myself. New year, new me, whatever.

I'm outies. <3
Edited 1 time - Last edited at 20:05:22 31/12/2015 by StriderSwag
CAV Platinum Sparx Gems: 6417
#9859 Posted: 20:23:35 31/12/2015
Quote: AvatariDragon
snip


I know it's on the moot side for me to really say anything since you're stuck with me whether you like it or not. But I'm unfathomably grateful for all the help and comfort you've given me over the course of this year and you are better than you may give yourself credit for. Best of luck to making 2016 better and getting yourself out of that hole.

Catch you on the flip side.
Sleepy0429 Emerald Sparx Gems: 3367
#9860 Posted: 00:57:35 01/01/2016
Hey.
Back for tonight
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dark52 let me change my username you coward
Bifrost Prismatic Sparx Gems: 10891
#9861 Posted: 11:35:55 01/01/2016
Thanks! Hopefully this year will be great to you like last year was great for me :3
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SO I'LL GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT
(What I need is never what I want)
MoonHorizons Gold Sparx Gems: 2826
#9862 Posted: 18:41:23 01/01/2016
Quote: Spyrobaro
return



hi . .
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the more obscure your favorite cartoons are, the more refined your taste is
arceustheprime Ripto Gems: 5362
#9863 Posted: 03:51:14 02/01/2016
welcome back barororo
willspyro Ripto Gems: 5862
#9864 Posted: 06:30:15 02/01/2016
Welcome back qeklord. (baro)
somePerson Diamond Sparx Gems: 9376
#9865 Posted: 21:08:50 02/01/2016
The ***** is back.
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Star Wars didn't happen, but it's a rad movie.
TacoMakerSkys Platinum Sparx Gems: 5676
#9866 Posted: 21:28:23 02/01/2016
Who???
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words. letters. filler.
Bryman04 Gold Sparx Gems: 2116
#9867 Posted: 21:57:52 02/01/2016
on Jan. 5th my activity will drop dramatically on all of my accounts, because school starts back up again.
I still will be on darkSpyro, but not so much on deviantART or Chatzy.
KeybasHedKey Ripto Gems: 1862
#9868 Posted: 08:00:48 03/01/2016
I'm back...really guys you treat me as like a...
whirlwind fan Platinum Sparx Gems: 5822
#9869 Posted: 08:02:11 03/01/2016
Quote: KeybasHedKey
I'm back...really guys you treat me as like a...


Like a?
KeybasHedKey Ripto Gems: 1862
#9870 Posted: 08:04:29 03/01/2016
I can't say it...

Really i left for some reason. I want more respect to my person. Everything i say people start throwing tomatos.
whirlwind fan Platinum Sparx Gems: 5822
#9871 Posted: 08:05:37 03/01/2016
Good for you, welcome back.
KeybasHedKey Ripto Gems: 1862
#9872 Posted: 08:08:28 03/01/2016
^I don't really trust your words...

There's going to be big changes in my person this year...
whirlwind fan Platinum Sparx Gems: 5822
#9873 Posted: 08:09:44 03/01/2016
Okay. Again, good for you.
KeybasHedKey Ripto Gems: 1862
#9874 Posted: 08:14:33 03/01/2016
I already meantioned it on my deviantart page big changes in my person will happen, but slowly time by time...
StriderSwag Gold Sparx Gems: 2769
#9875 Posted: 08:15:52 03/01/2016
Kk, gonna get that picture for the achievement thing tomorrow morning then I'm outies again.
I'll be back eventually. <3
Bifrost Prismatic Sparx Gems: 10891
#9876 Posted: 12:26:09 03/01/2016
I'll be here if I'm needed to respond to another ragequit. No more wasting my time replying elsewhere.

A bit ahead of time, but internet was being a bit of a jerk yesterday. Considering I'm on for most of the day, if I disappear that's why.
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SO I'LL GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT
(What I need is never what I want)
thumper Ripto Gems: 3519
#9877 Posted: 12:34:54 03/01/2016
Quote: Spyrobaro
return


Welcome back Baro! ^.^


Quote: KeybasHedKey
I can't say it...

Really i left for some reason. I want more respect to my person. Everything i say people start throwing tomatos.


You say you want respect? Try showing respect to others and maybe you'll get the respect you're wanting.


Quote: StriderSwag
Kk, gonna get that picture for the achievement thing tomorrow morning then I'm outies again.
I'll be back eventually. <3


I do hope eventually comes soon. Bye for now. ^.^
Badwolfmichael Gold Sparx Gems: 2511
#9878 Posted: 03:33:30 04/01/2016
Bye guys. <3
Wreckingball13 Gold Sparx Gems: 2583
#9879 Posted: 03:56:12 04/01/2016
I'm getting bored of this place so I'm gonna leave for a while. See ya later
whirlwind fan Platinum Sparx Gems: 5822
#9880 Posted: 03:59:32 04/01/2016
no, seabass i don't respect you.
Samius Hunter Gems: 9550
#9881 Posted: 08:36:52 04/01/2016
Quote: AvatariDragon
I've been thinking about this for awhile, and I think it's time for me to leave. I don't know if it's because I have changed, or if the site/user base has changed, but I don't really enjoy it here anymore. I don't have much to contribute because I'm not interested in or can't relate to many of the topics being posted, and when I do post I feel like I'm ignored a lot of the time anyway. I'm just not needed here anymore, assuming I was ever actually needed. And while some of y'all may say or think differently, I doubt I'm really wanted here either. Don't get me wrong, I am grateful to the friends that I have made here, but on the forum in general I seem to be more of a social outcast than anything else, or at least that's how I feel a lot of the time. I suppose that's my own fault for not being more social or even more approachable, but at the same time that's just how I am and I can't really change that. I thought I could be more myself online, or rather someone I would like to be, but it seems even that has a limit.

Also, it seems like this place gives me more grief than anything else. I joined this site thinking it would be a good escape from real life problems, and I could make friends and have a good time. But honestly if it wasn't for meeting scf and a couple other friends, I would say that I wish I had never joined this site at all. I will admit that the first couple of years here were nice, but it seems like this place has turned into a very unwelcoming and unfriendly community. It almost feels like Tumblr in a way; if a user doesn't fit y'all's standards you go after them like it's some sort of witch hunt. It's like some of y'all have formed little cliques and stick with that while treating everyone else badly, or ignoring them completely. And it seems like if there's even the smallest opportunity to pick on someone, some of you are a little too quick to take it. The sad part is that issues like this have been discussed before but nobody seems to care enough to change it. Obviously not everyone acts like this though, and it's not all the time, and I am far from being perfect myself, but I've been here long enough to see these things. I feel like I've been watching all of this from the sidelines. You know I'm there but I'm not important enough to recognize, which is why I never really bothered discussing this before. I would often feel dread when I'm about to come on here but I would still do it since it's part of my routine or whatever and I never really had anything better to do. I would often get stressed or annoyed or even angry, or I'll feel bad about myself because I keep comparing myself to others or I'll say something that ends up getting ignored or sounding stupid or taken the wrong way. And none of that helps my depression at all. I can't really blame y'all for making it worse because some of it is my own fault and I should learn to control my feelings and emotions a bit more. But still, enough is enough.

I keep telling myself that it's only a website, but I've been here for quite awhile now, and I have history tied to this site, so it's difficult for me to say that this place isn't important. So all of that just makes the negative feelings that much worse, especially since I always considered this place to be like a second home. It really hasn't been all bad, but as the saying goes, "All good things must come to an end." And anyway, I'm pretty busy with school, so all of these negative feelings and distractions aren't good for school life, and even for life in general. So that's why I'm leaving now, to start the new year off fresh.

That being said, if there are actually people who would like to stay in touch, I'll still log on every now and then to check messages. But I'd like to log on here as little as possible, so if you want to talk frequently I'll give you my Skype or Tumblr name or something. Who knows, I might end up coming back eventually, because as much as I hate to admit it, this site is rather addicting. But don't count on it, so don't expect anything from Avatari anymore.

Thanks for all of the memories, and happy new year.

Bye bye~


Sad to see you go, but I wish you luck. I hope everything gets better.

Quote: Sesshomaru75
Quote: KeybasHedKey
I can't say it...

Really i left for some reason. I want more respect to my person. Everything i say people start throwing tomatos.


Respect is earned, not handed out as if it amounts to nothing.

Not to sound rude, but if you want to be treated with respect you have to show us that you deserve it first.

If you're gonna continue to disrespect other people the way that you have been, don't expect any respect from others to come your way. Simple as that.

Having a mental illness doesn't automatically give you a free pass on that either, as harsh as it sounds.

However, people should keep the fact that you have a mental illness in mind for future reference rather than jumping on you when you do something wrong.


I don't think that would really fix the whole problem. Your post in particular isn't rude at all, but saying "Respect is earned" is a double-edged sword, because it always works both ways.

While it was all originally KeybasHedKey's fault, I feel that she could start groveling for forgiveness right now and the only responses she'd get would be something along the lines of:
"Yeah right haha I'll believe it when I see it."
"Oh, this is what, the third time already?"
"You brought this to yourself."
"Stop trying to play the victim."

I mean, could the users who do this kinda stuff at least admit that they're also being complete dicks in return? If people really wanted to make nice they would be nice, even if they would have to let go of that sweet, sweet chance to get back at someone who made them mad once or twice.
Edited 1 time - Last edited at 09:11:25 04/01/2016 by Samius
thumper Ripto Gems: 3519
#9882 Posted: 12:54:48 04/01/2016
^ I'll admit I've been harsh on her but she's the one being rude. Mental illness is NO reason for her to lash out at others because she doesn't agree with an opinion. If her being here is upsetting her to the degree that she lashes out at others then she's the one that needs to quit logging on and go about her miserable way. She's not a child (even tho she acts like one.) I do feel as tho she can control her anger and quit lashing out at others, but it just seems as tho she dwells on starting arguments which in turn she turns it into she's the victim. Nah I have no respect for her and I don't think she will change, she's gonna get worse and she'll be saying 'stop picking on me, I'm leaving'. She'll come back and..
oh wait... it's a circle, a never ending circle. smilie
Samius Hunter Gems: 9550
#9883 Posted: 13:58:59 04/01/2016
Quote: thumper
^ I'll admit I've been harsh on her but she's the one being rude. Mental illness is NO reason for her to lash out at others because she doesn't agree with an opinion. If her being here is upsetting her to the degree that she lashes out at others then she's the one that needs to quit logging on and go about her miserable way. She's not a child (even tho she acts like one.) I do feel as tho she can control her anger and quit lashing out at others, but it just seems as tho she dwells on starting arguments which in turn she turns it into she's the victim. Nah I have no respect for her and I don't think she will change, she's gonna get worse and she'll be saying 'stop picking on me, I'm leaving'. She'll come back and..
oh wait... it's a circle, a never ending circle. smilie


But you (and some other users) have been rude towards her as well. If I was in her place, I wouldn't want to change my act for people who neither respect nor believe in me at all.
thumper Ripto Gems: 3519
#9884 Posted: 14:06:02 04/01/2016
Quote: Samius
Quote: thumper
^ I'll admit I've been harsh on her but she's the one being rude. Mental illness is NO reason for her to lash out at others because she doesn't agree with an opinion. If her being here is upsetting her to the degree that she lashes out at others then she's the one that needs to quit logging on and go about her miserable way. She's not a child (even tho she acts like one.) I do feel as tho she can control her anger and quit lashing out at others, but it just seems as tho she dwells on starting arguments which in turn she turns it into she's the victim. Nah I have no respect for her and I don't think she will change, she's gonna get worse and she'll be saying 'stop picking on me, I'm leaving'. She'll come back and..
oh wait... it's a circle, a never ending circle. smilie


But you (and some other users) have been rude towards her as well. If I was in her place, I wouldn't want to change my act for people who neither respect nor believe in me at all.


Yes I have been rude to her and YES I did admit I have been rather harsh towards her. Ya know if I was in HER place, I'd listen to those who are TRYING to get her to hold back her anger and temper tantrums and at least try to be a bit nicer to others. But then again, I'm not her so why bother with this conversation anymore. smilie
Bifrost Prismatic Sparx Gems: 10891
#9885 Posted: 14:09:31 04/01/2016
I've been nice several times,tried to reason several times to prevent people getting threads locked or posts removed, but I'm not here to babysit another user, there are limits, and you're definately out of my 'reasonable person' list if you throw a tantrum over a contest you weren't even participating on. If she FINALLY learns something, that's fine and dandy and I'll go back to discussing like a proper adult, but as long as there's drama and fake promises, doesn't feel deserved.
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SO I'LL GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT
(What I need is never what I want)
Edited 1 time - Last edited at 14:15:00 04/01/2016 by Bifrost
HeyitsHotDog Diamond Sparx Gems: 8866
#9886 Posted: 14:17:13 04/01/2016
Quote: AvatariDragon
I've been thinking about this for awhile, and I think it's time for me to leave. I don't know if it's because I have changed, or if the site/user base has changed, but I don't really enjoy it here anymore. I don't have much to contribute because I'm not interested in or can't relate to many of the topics being posted, and when I do post I feel like I'm ignored a lot of the time anyway. I'm just not needed here anymore, assuming I was ever actually needed. And while some of y'all may say or think differently, I doubt I'm really wanted here either. Don't get me wrong, I am grateful to the friends that I have made here, but on the forum in general I seem to be more of a social outcast than anything else, or at least that's how I feel a lot of the time. I suppose that's my own fault for not being more social or even more approachable, but at the same time that's just how I am and I can't really change that. I thought I could be more myself online, or rather someone I would like to be, but it seems even that has a limit.

Also, it seems like this place gives me more grief than anything else. I joined this site thinking it would be a good escape from real life problems, and I could make friends and have a good time. But honestly if it wasn't for meeting scf and a couple other friends, I would say that I wish I had never joined this site at all. I will admit that the first couple of years here were nice, but it seems like this place has turned into a very unwelcoming and unfriendly community. It almost feels like Tumblr in a way; if a user doesn't fit y'all's standards you go after them like it's some sort of witch hunt. It's like some of y'all have formed little cliques and stick with that while treating everyone else badly, or ignoring them completely. And it seems like if there's even the smallest opportunity to pick on someone, some of you are a little too quick to take it. The sad part is that issues like this have been discussed before but nobody seems to care enough to change it. Obviously not everyone acts like this though, and it's not all the time, and I am far from being perfect myself, but I've been here long enough to see these things. I feel like I've been watching all of this from the sidelines. You know I'm there but I'm not important enough to recognize, which is why I never really bothered discussing this before. I would often feel dread when I'm about to come on here but I would still do it since it's part of my routine or whatever and I never really had anything better to do. I would often get stressed or annoyed or even angry, or I'll feel bad about myself because I keep comparing myself to others or I'll say something that ends up getting ignored or sounding stupid or taken the wrong way. And none of that helps my depression at all. I can't really blame y'all for making it worse because some of it is my own fault and I should learn to control my feelings and emotions a bit more. But still, enough is enough.

I keep telling myself that it's only a website, but I've been here for quite awhile now, and I have history tied to this site, so it's difficult for me to say that this place isn't important. So all of that just makes the negative feelings that much worse, especially since I always considered this place to be like a second home. It really hasn't been all bad, but as the saying goes, "All good things must come to an end." And anyway, I'm pretty busy with school, so all of these negative feelings and distractions aren't good for school life, and even for life in general. So that's why I'm leaving now, to start the new year off fresh.

That being said, if there are actually people who would like to stay in touch, I'll still log on every now and then to check messages. But I'd like to log on here as little as possible, so if you want to talk frequently I'll give you my Skype or Tumblr name or something. Who knows, I might end up coming back eventually, because as much as I hate to admit it, this site is rather addicting. But don't count on it, so don't expect anything from Avatari anymore.

Thanks for all of the memories, and happy new year.

Bye bye~


And we just started talking again too. smilie


Well, enjoy your life and good luck with your future. You rock.
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Hey is there anything you want me to bring for the rest of the week and if so it’s so cool that you can do something and just do it like that
Samius Hunter Gems: 9550
#9887 Posted: 14:17:29 04/01/2016
Quote: Bifrost
I've been nice several times,tried to reason several times to prevent people getting threads locked or posts removed, but I'm not here to babysit another user, there are limits, and you're definately out of my 'reasonable person' list if you throw a tantrum over a contest you weren't even participating on. If she FINALLY learns something, that's fine and dandy and I'll go back to discussing like a proper adult, but as long as there's drama and fake promises, doesn't feel deserved.


Aside from not insulting people that you don't want to insult you back, that's really the only thing I'm after from both sides of these arguments with Keybas.
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