Everyone else here has been rather nice about this whole situation.
I'm probably about to be a little less nice.
Quote: Windumup
Pretty much this, it's not "Oh if I become a girl then I would instantly fall in love" as some people think I mean. Honestly if you look at a good portion of my avatars (Female Singers, MLP but that one is up for debate on if it should count as a feminine avatar considering I am a brony, etc) then you would kinda think at first that maybe I am female at first glance. I experimented a little in drama class (had to play a witch for my scene anyways with costume.) so I put on one of the prop skirts on for my costume and I didn't actually mind o. o (do note lots of guys in my drama class do this for skits where there are less females in the group, plus it made for a funny skit where we had to pick a song and make a no dialogue scene for said song. I wasn't in that group but it was really funny)
edit: How did this topic blow up so much over one school day? Also the attention I meant is the whole stereotypical gamer sees gamer girl and goes googly eyes over her. While I don't support the stereotype, I do kinda only have been in love with girls who are already gamers. Just my personal preference
Ok listen here. And this goes to anybody else who's feeling like they might be another gender because they have a tendency to like more masculine or feminine things.
Liking some feminine things does not make you transgendered, and liking something feminine one day more than another doesn't make you genderfluid either.
I use MLP avatars because I like MLP. I use avatars or like certain things featuring women. My avatar right now is a damn woman. But that doesn't mean I'm about to start sitting here thinking "hmm well maybe I'm actually female and not male" because I myself do not personally feel anything other than male. Feeling like you're a different gender just because you like certain things is kinda asinine (and might I add, reinforces the gender stereotypes that people nowadays try to hard to tear down).
Also while you not minding (using your words) wearing a skirt could be a sign of something, it could also simply mean you didn't necessarily have a problem and were alright with doing it for the skit (which loads of actors do while not necessarily feeling a different gender). Don't start blowing up things like this in an attempt to try and discover some sort of big thing, or as it seems right now, as ways to excuse the choice you're making based on something a little less meaningful.
Do not get me wrong in the slightest. I understand that you might feel alone and upset and single and even a little desperate. If there is anyone here who could understand what you're feeling about relationships it is most certainly me and that's why I would give you the benefit of the doubt when you were having the meltdown the other day about possibly losing that girl. It sucks loads and it's really hard to go through and people who may already be in a relationship or don't really care about them may not really understand it.
BUT
To go and do something as life changing and massive as change your gender for the primary reason that you feel like you'll have a better chance of finding a partner that way is beyond ridiculous and quite frankly can possibly seen as insulting towards people who actually go through these thoughts and issues regarding their gender identity. Firstly are you even bi/gay? If not you already found yourself at a dead end because you won't feel much attraction to any guys. Second, even though you identify as female, it'll probably be quite some time before you are able to make the biological changes to that, meaning you will still appear biologically male (and therefore lose the interest of any guy who isn't gay or fine with dating transgenders). So you're throwing a lot out the window and making a huge life changing decision...................on the very slim chance that you'll have a better shot at finding a relationship.
I thought I had issues about this abandonment and loneliness stuff but come on man. If this is
really just to pick up a guy instead of a girl because "there's more gamer guys than gamer girls" then you really didn't think this all through and need to have a good long thinking about it. Like Baro said it tends to be around 6+ months of these constant feelings of discomfort before you can really say you may be better as a different gender. You were like what, 3 days?
If you feel legitimately like you're more female than male and you would be more comfortable as a female, then you have my support and I encourage you to go through with it. If this is just to try and get a date better, then don't even ****ing bother.