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Everything you're saying is true.....But I've had to literally cry it before and it's never worked.

Again, the whole point of talking it out is to remain calm. If it starts to get heated up someway then the conversation could be cut short, and important things could be left unsaid. But with that said, it's okay to CRY during the conversation. We're not robots, but never EVER turn it into an argument. That will make things a whooole lot worse.

And if you manage to have a lot of talks, and it seems like nothing is working? Then you should breakup. No relationship is perfect, even with hard work. It's why we date, to see if the person we are attracted to is the person who is compatiable with us.

In theory, that's perfect.


In practice, it's completely easier said than done.

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I know it's easier said than done, but that's the thing with a lot of relationships. It's work, guys.

I know man, I get it. Relationships are hard, love hurts, but hey you have to try your hardest if you truly love them y'know?

It even hurts more if you have a crush on a guy and you feel like you don't exist

Its feels like your out in the rain your sitting on a bench waiting.
No colour i feel like I'm not in colour and everyone around me is happy in a relationship and you see the connections they have and you just keep hoping the guy you like will ask ya out my heart feele something but i don't know why?

Btw he isnt at school anymore

I got used because he wanted a another girl.

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Quote: Metallo

Quote: TheFlyingSeal

Again, the whole point of talking it out is to remain calm. If it starts to get heated up someway then the conversation could be cut short, and important things could be left unsaid. But with that said, it's okay to CRY during the conversation. We're not robots, but never EVER turn it into an argument. That will make things a whooole lot worse.

And if you manage to have a lot of talks, and it seems like nothing is working? Then you should breakup. No relationship is perfect, even with hard work. It's why we date, to see if the person we are attracted to is the person who is compatiable with us.

In theory, that's perfect.


In practice, it's completely easier said than done.

Quote: Me, a couple posts ago

I know it's easier said than done, but that's the thing with a lot of relationships. It's work, guys.

I know man, I get it. Relationships are hard, love hurts, but hey you have to try your hardest if you truly love them y'know?

It's easy for you to try your hardest. It's hard to convince the other to do the same.


That's the real problem.


It seems to me that you've never been in a toxic relationship before. If you have, the Dr. Phil rhetoric feels like mockery. Like telling a fish to climb a tree.

The number 1 cause could possibly be, in my opinion, lies and unconfidence. These two always lead to fights for absolutely everything, making the relationship have more cons than pros, and eventually making them break up thinking that it was all a big mistake.


Also, I don't know if this happens frequently, but, to my perspective, lies and unconfidence lead to greed over one's self. What I mean by this is that one of the two starts to live the relationship only thinking on how he/she feels about such, and not their couple. Causing even more fights, and even more probabilities to leave their "loved one" thinking it was all a big mistake.

Quote: Metallo

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Quote: Metallo

In theory, that's perfect.


In practice, it's completely easier said than done.

Quote: Me, a couple posts ago

I know it's easier said than done, but that's the thing with a lot of relationships. It's work, guys.

I know man, I get it. Relationships are hard, love hurts, but hey you have to try your hardest if you truly love them y'know?

It's easy for you to try your hardest. It's hard to convince the other to do the same.


That's the real problem.


It seems to me that you've never been in a toxic relationship before. If you have, the Dr. Phil rhetoric feels like mockery. Like telling a fish to climb a tree.

Romantic? You'd be right.
In general? You wouldn't know the half of it.

Telling a fish to climb a tree? Really? I think you're going a little too far. Literally every relationship I've seen ended because there was lack of communication between both partners, and relationships that managed to last longer was because they talked things out.

Again. I'm repeating it AGAIN. IT'S. EASIER. SAID. THAN DONE. Look at that, in all caps and bold lettering too!!1!

I know what you're trying to say, not everyone is going to be committed. Not everyone is going to have the courage to speak up what they want to say. Dating it hard. You never know who you can trust. People will manipulate you to think nothing is wrong in the first place. Some will manipulate you into thinking everything is wrong. I GET IT.

And if you're calling "literally just speak out your mind it's okay" mockery, then fine. I give up. You win. Have fun trying to figure out what you're doing wrong because if talking about flaws and creating compromises seems silly to you then i have news for you bud.

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I know man, I get it. Relationships are hard, love hurts, but hey you have to try your hardest if you truly love them y'know?

It's easy for you to try your hardest. It's hard to convince the other to do the same.


That's the real problem.


It seems to me that you've never been in a toxic relationship before. If you have, the Dr. Phil rhetoric feels like mockery. Like telling a fish to climb a tree.

Romantic? You'd be right.
In general? You wouldn't know the half of it.

Telling a fish to climb a tree? Really? I think you're going a little too far. Literally every relationship I've seen ended because there was lack of communication between both partners, and relationships that managed to last longer was because they talked things out.

Again. I'm repeating it AGAIN. IT'S. EASIER. SAID. THAN DONE. Look at that, in all caps and bold lettering too!!1!

I know what you're trying to say, not everyone is going to be committed. Not everyone is going to have the courage to speak up what they want to say. Dating it hard. You never know who you can trust. People will manipulate you to think nothing is wrong in the first place. Some will manipulate you into thinking everything is wrong. I GET IT.

And if you're calling "literally just speak out your mind it's okay" mockery, then fine. I give up. You win. Have fun trying to figure out what you're doing wrong because if talking about flaws and creating compromises seems silly to you then i have news for you bud.

I'm sorry, I didn't mean a mockery in that way. Because I'm always going to do that, no matter what. But it's just a slap in the face to hear that when it's what you believe in and the people you trusted your heart with just laughed at it.

I didn't meant to offend you like that. I'm sorry.

the number one cause of break ups is this novel

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the number one cause of break ups is this novel

The book was better than the movie

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Quote: StriderSwag

the number one cause of break ups is this novel

The book was better than the movie

nah the movie was better