darkSpyro

Not statistically, but in your own experience.


Me, I was always second place. No matter how hard I tried, there was always some guy who was somehow better and so I would get dumped for him. Of course, this wasn't many girls, but really one girl whom I dated multiple times on and off. And she dumped me for many different guys.

And it was horrible because I always thought it was my fault. I always thought I wasn't good enough. And now I can't even enjoy a perfectly good relationship without worrying about it.

They say time heals everything, but I'm still waiting.

I got bored

It wasn't really a official relationship but I left one due to unwanted advances. Basically I was just being used.

I'm annoying

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It wasn't really a official relationship but I left one due to unwanted advances. Basically I was just being used.

Won't happen again as long as I'm around. ^.^

I appreciate it. I can beat their asses myself now though (;

No, I mean, that's literally why they break up with me

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I'm annoying

No you're not D:

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Won't happen again as long as I'm around. ^.^

I appreciate it. I can beat their asses myself now though (;

Ah, but you don't have to go through the trouble. Take a nap or something while I find whoever tries to hurt you and destroy them and everything they love. Anything for my darling ^.^

Sounds exciting ♪

It's the adhd. But, I've got a loving girlfriend now, and we just celebrated our three month anniversary

Lack of communication. Every single problem in a relationship is caused by lack of communication.

Have a problem with something they're doing? Talk it out. Keeping it inside will fester anger and sadness.

Feeling as though they're unfaithful? Talk it out. Explain why you think that, and both of you think of a way to better your bonds.

You're becoming unfaithful? Talk it out. The conversation might be sad, sure, but it will help you and your current partner figure out what should be improved in the next relationship.

You're becoming bored? Talk it out. Find out a compromise with your partner to spice up your relationship, and agree that if it doesn't work out then you split. It's better to tell them rather than keeping it behind their backs and make it even sadder and actually becoming unfaithful.

I know it's easier said than done, but that's the thing with a lot of relationships. It's work, guys. Nothing is going to go well if you go with the flow, if you really love someone then you have to work to keep the relationship alive. Just stay calm and remember to express your thoughts to your partner.

With my first love, we broke up cause I didn't want children but he did. Eh, big mistake on my part.
A few other relationships I walked away from because of physical abuse.
Some guys don't know how to be faithful so again I walked away from those relationships.
Uh...

I've never been through a breakup, but I agree with TheFlyingSeal.

typically for me it's because i have no interest in having sex with them so they **** someone else and expect me to be okay with it

maybe the bigger problem is that i always end up falling in love with people i only see as a best friend which is complicated to explain but WHATEVER

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Lack of communication. Every single problem in a relationship is caused by lack of communication.

Have a problem with something they're doing? Talk it out. Keeping it inside will fester anger and sadness.

Feeling as though they're unfaithful? Talk it out. Explain why you think that, and both of you think of a way to better your bonds.

You're becoming unfaithful? Talk it out. The conversation might be sad, sure, but it will help you and your current partner figure out what should be improved in the next relationship.

You're becoming bored? Talk it out. Find out a compromise with your partner to spice up your relationship, and agree that if it doesn't work out then you split. It's better to tell them rather than keeping it behind their backs and make it even sadder and actually becoming unfaithful.

I know it's easier said than done, but that's the thing with a lot of relationships. It's work, guys. Nothing is going to go well if you go with the flow, if you really love someone then you have to work to keep the relationship alive. Just stay calm and remember to express your thoughts to your partner.

Everything you're saying is true.....But I've had to literally cry it before and it's never worked.

"There's someone else"

After a while it's hard to not see it as simply not being good enough.

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"There's someone else"

After a while it's hard to not see it as simply not being good enough.

You know, then.


You know how it feels.

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Lack of communication. Every single problem in a relationship is caused by lack of communication.

Have a problem with something they're doing? Talk it out. Keeping it inside will fester anger and sadness.

Feeling as though they're unfaithful? Talk it out. Explain why you think that, and both of you think of a way to better your bonds.

You're becoming unfaithful? Talk it out. The conversation might be sad, sure, but it will help you and your current partner figure out what should be improved in the next relationship.

You're becoming bored? Talk it out. Find out a compromise with your partner to spice up your relationship, and agree that if it doesn't work out then you split. It's better to tell them rather than keeping it behind their backs and make it even sadder and actually becoming unfaithful.

I know it's easier said than done, but that's the thing with a lot of relationships. It's work, guys. Nothing is going to go well if you go with the flow, if you really love someone then you have to work to keep the relationship alive. Just stay calm and remember to express your thoughts to your partner.

Everything you're saying is true.....But I've had to literally cry it before and it's never worked.

Again, the whole point of talking it out is to remain calm. If it starts to get heated up someway then the conversation could be cut short, and important things could be left unsaid. But with that said, it's okay to CRY during the conversation. We're not robots, but never EVER turn it into an argument. That will make things a whooole lot worse.

And if you manage to have a lot of talks, and it seems like nothing is working? Then you should breakup. No relationship is perfect, even with hard work. It's why we date, to see if the person we are attracted to is the person who is compatiable with us.

Intimacy is usually one?

Not caring.

People fall in puppy-love, get in a relationship, the initial excitement wears off, and they realize they're not actually as committed to the actual person as they thought.

my ex girlfriend broke up with me just cuz i 2 stocked her in smash

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Lack of communication. Every single problem in a relationship is caused by lack of communication.

Have a problem with something they're doing? Talk it out. Keeping it inside will fester anger and sadness.

Feeling as though they're unfaithful? Talk it out. Explain why you think that, and both of you think of a way to better your bonds.

You're becoming unfaithful? Talk it out. The conversation might be sad, sure, but it will help you and your current partner figure out what should be improved in the next relationship.

You're becoming bored? Talk it out. Find out a compromise with your partner to spice up your relationship, and agree that if it doesn't work out then you split. It's better to tell them rather than keeping it behind their backs and make it even sadder and actually becoming unfaithful.

I know it's easier said than done, but that's the thing with a lot of relationships. It's work, guys. Nothing is going to go well if you go with the flow, if you really love someone then you have to work to keep the relationship alive. Just stay calm and remember to express your thoughts to your partner.

Everything you're saying is true.....But I've had to literally cry it before and it's never worked.

Again, the whole point of talking it out is to remain calm. If it starts to get heated up someway then the conversation could be cut short, and important things could be left unsaid. But with that said, it's okay to CRY during the conversation. We're not robots, but never EVER turn it into an argument. That will make things a whooole lot worse.

And if you manage to have a lot of talks, and it seems like nothing is working? Then you should breakup. No relationship is perfect, even with hard work. It's why we date, to see if the person we are attracted to is the person who is compatiable with us.

In theory, that's perfect.


In practice, it's completely easier said than done.

my ex girlfriend broke up with me just cuz i 2 stocked her in smash

Because they were online relationships through DarkSpyro.

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my ex girlfriend broke up with me just cuz i 2 stocked her in smash

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my ex girlfriend broke up with me just cuz i 2 stocked her in smash

yes we saw

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my ex girlfriend broke up with me just cuz i 2 stocked her in smash

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my ex girlfriend broke up with me just cuz i 2 stocked her in smash

yes we saw

oops i did not mean to post that twice. oh well

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my ex girlfriend broke up with me just cuz i 2 stocked her in smash

YOU PHYSICALLY BEAT HER CHARACTER ON A VIDEO GAME WITH YOUR CHARACTER


I AM TELLING TUMBLR

My first relationship ended badly because I didn't properly communicate a loss of interest in her before it was too late. The second one... was online, and he... I... it's complicated, but I think it's sufficient to say it involved tulpas...

I've yet to be "in love" again ever since then.

Only really had one relationship and that was more than enough.

When you're used because she's waiting to get back with her ex is not the nicest thing in the world to happen, especially when she acts like you'd never met.

So i'm better off on my own, you don't get hurt that way.

because someone asks them out and they accidentally say yes and refuse to break up with them because they can't handle a long distance relationship with me (despite saying countless times they wanted it more than anything) :^)

Though I never been it's easy to see a reason why it's just cause of who I am that makes me really I don't know disgraceful and weird to be honest ever other person is more inertresting and has a great charm to them me 0% chance just cause I'm not but that is just me taking a good guess why someone would.

Hey CF where shall I begin

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Hey CF where shall I begin

The beginning is always a good place.

I bet you have a lot of stories.

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Hey CF where shall I begin

The beginning is always a good place.

I bet you have a lot of stories.

I do, and I asked CF because she knows

Lack of understanding and/or lack of mutual feelings.

And in some cases with past friends (not romantic or anything but it's just as bad), straight up betrayal of trust.

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my ex girlfriend broke up with me just cuz i 2 stocked her in smash

YOU PHYSICALLY BEAT HER CHARACTER ON A VIDEO GAME WITH YOUR CHARACTER


I AM TELLING TUMBLR

Smash Bros is such a misogynistic game.

falling out of love for no reason at all

When I was like 10 I once thought I was in love, but I really wasn't she was just a nice friend who I wanted to spend more time with but I didn't know, and she dumped me because I never hugged her.

Oops.

I kissed a guy in first grade after I beat him up

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Hey CF where shall I begin

The beginning is always a good place.

I bet you have a lot of stories.

I do, and I asked CF because she knows

Well you can share with the group.

I didn't read anything other than the title or OP so I'm gonna say cheating.

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I didn't read anything other than the title or OP so I'm gonna say cheating.

Das is true.

Poor you you what is wrong with her to do that to you?
I don't have any relationship advice(because no guy will ask me out :'( )
You seam like a nice guy you will find the right girl she maybe watching you or be one of your close friends.

She is a fool to keep dumping you for what tools?

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Lack of communication. Every single problem in a relationship is caused by lack of communication.

I can think of a few things that aren't.

Like, if you're just too dissimilar. You can't talk your way out of being different people.

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I didn't read anything other than the title or OP so I'm gonna say cheating.

What has caused most of YOUR breakups? Is what the topic's about.

Alright here we go.

My only true and honest relationship ended very recently. And I'll tell it short

>dated girl
>got dumped on the 4 month anniversary
>got taken back an hour later
>got dumped again 2 days later
>6 days pass
>starts flirting with one of my best friends
>2 more days pass
>they hook up
>2 months pass
>she has the nerve to talk to me
>we fight for a while
>I discover she liked my best friend the whole entire time
>she admits that she used me in 2 ways- 1 to try and move on from him (after he chose her best friend over her) and then to get closer to him
>I tell her to get out of my life so I can continue to forget about her
>I await the flying monkeys to attack me

So thats my story, hope you enjoyed the nap you probably took.