darkSpyro - Spyro and Skylanders Forum > Stuff and Nonsense > discrimination against new users
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#51 Posted: 18:35:30 15/05/2015
What the **** happened???
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#52 Posted: 18:40:46 15/05/2015
*Doesn't read the comments*
What happened 'eerrreee?
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#53 Posted: 18:54:28 15/05/2015
Quote: theuone
He raised a good point though, one that I think we should all take into consideration. Yes, this time people's suspicions turned out to be correct and I'm glad the situation was solved, but I fear that this will only make people more suspicious of all new users in the future. They have enough trouble trying to find their place in a community that doesn't want them around (let's face it, darkSpyro is not a very welcoming place, which is a real shame since people have such good time here) and especially the younger, more inexperienced users can be hit pretty hard by it all. It's always easy to look at things in hindsight and point out how many times new users have gotten themselves banned through breaking the rules in the end, but that's not always the case. Sometimes they're being pushed around simply because they're new/young and ignorant of how things work around here. Someone could give them a hand instead of telling them that they failed. A little empathy is all I want to see. Assholes and trolls are another thing entirely, but in all our lives there was a time when we couldn't type for **** and behaved like kids. |
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#54 Posted: 18:58:30 15/05/2015
^Thisthisthisthisthisthis
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#55 Posted: 19:16:32 15/05/2015
Quote: Samius
Correction: Stuff and Nonsense is not a very welcoming place. I started out on dS in the General section and specific game sections, and I didn't really have much trouble or issue there. I got along with people, made friends (some of which I still have today) and we had nice little discussions. And while I don't have any real experience in those sections, the Skylanders boards also seem a little more tame. They have a lot of kids, yes, but they also seem a little kinder to newer users trying to have discussions and have a more "forget the haters" attitude, compared to the "just deal with it" attitude S&N often carries. It's certainly a product of different age ranges but still. I think a huge reason for it though is ExtremeSpyro. While previous banned users would get banned, maybe try to make one or two more accounts, fail, and then leave our lives forever, ES continued to come back under several different accounts multiple times, and it sounds a bit like he still tries every now and then. I noticed around his time period people began to assume that every new user that posted in the section was ES, and it got a little ridiculous. And even if ES himself has began to mellow out with attempts, we now see Locoguy doing nearly the exact same, and now users (and sometimes even us mods) tend to question if a newer user is him. We've all gotten so antsy about this stuff, and I feel like sooty turning out to be a returning user (which one I have no idea) isn't going to help matters any. I'm not saying to have some big attitude adjustment or to become a hugbox (that kinda goes against S&N). But to also not be as harsh on newer users. If you think they're an alt, contact one of the mods about it and we can look into it. This issue of not being super harsh on new users also goes for if you see that the user is young. If they're acting ridiculous then by all means go nuts and call them out; I'd be right there with you doing the same. But if they're just playing around or whatever, maybe not go on a rampage about how stupid they are. |
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#56 Posted: 19:34:27 15/05/2015
I remember I warned you all of this a while ago (and I'm sure I wasn't the only one):
darkSpyro (or at least, the S&N community) is just like a high school clique. Those who aren't respected, or perceived as "cool," go ignored. It's so ironic......Most of you come here to escape that sort of social exile, and here you are as perpetrators of it yourselves. You feel powerful, don't you, being able to be selective about to whom you grant the title of acquaintance, because you're one of the "cool kids" now. You feel like you're suddenly elevated in status, because you've never been accepted before, but hey! Here you are, and you've got some ranking. What better way to celebrate than to become the elitist overlords who always torture the "underlings" outside of your circle? You were one of them at one time (hell, you still are, in the world outside of your screen), and here you are showing the ultimate lack of sympathy and control. Someone once said that tumblr is the place where real-life losers get to be the big bullies they always wanted to be, but I honestly think that applies to darkSpyro more. This is why I can't stand to be here for too long at a time. You people make me absolutely sick. |
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#57 Posted: 19:38:43 15/05/2015
^This too omg
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#58 Posted: 19:48:28 15/05/2015
Quote: Spyrobaro
It's obvious; most users here live pathetic, meaningless lives outside of their computer screens, and so they have to resort to elitism to fill that hole in their souls. |
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#59 Posted: 19:49:06 15/05/2015
At least people thinking I was an alt of some "Locoguy107" was short-lived. I did a little research on him, and apparently he's been banned on multiple Spyro-themed websites...
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#60 Posted: 19:55:29 15/05/2015
Quote: ViceEmargo
Well you've proven multiple times that you have an enjoyable and kind personality, as opposed to locoguy. |
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#61 Posted: 19:55:37 15/05/2015
Quote: Metallo
This really better be a joke, if not you're making a huge accusation about this place and its members.
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#62 Posted: 19:57:03 15/05/2015
Quote: TorchSheep
Maybe my diction was hyperbolic, but my meaning still stands. |
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#63 Posted: 20:01:36 15/05/2015
Quote: Metallo
I wouldn't really make that generalization. It seems very pessimistic, and people tend to take that sort of thing personally. I get that you react to these things strongly and that you mean well, but people are just going to lash out if you say things like that. Though yes, I suspect this place is a sort of a "home away from home" for many people whose lives lack social contact IRL. Still, darkSpyro is not a utopia. The realities of life and human nature apply here as well, but here we can choose to address those issues as a community, partly because most of us do share a common background of being bullied (including you and me, I assume). And this is exactly what we're doing now. Let's not stop. |
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#64 Posted: 20:10:59 15/05/2015
Quote: Metallo
And now you're going off the deep end and getting more harsh than even the users here tend to get towards newer users. |
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#65 Posted: 20:12:06 15/05/2015
Quote: Metallo
Accurate to me tho |
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#66 Posted: 20:16:51 15/05/2015
Quote: StriderSwag
I can tell ya, I was half expecting you to flip out over that. I liked that you didn't. Right now it's a good thing to lighten the mood a bit. Quote: CAV
Yes, perhaps that would be accurate. I've never been to the Skylanders boards (which are about the only populated boards in dS beside S&N), but I assume that they might have somewhat of a similar problem once the users start to have a larger age difference. And yeah, I agree. Let's not start hugboxing. But if nothing else, let's at least try to treat new users with the same amount of respect we would show to any stranger of our own age. There's a thing about the leniency that Stuff and Nonsense is supposed to have that irks me a bit though. Some people seem to interpret that to mean that they're free to be more "blunt" with the things they say (to put it mildly). I think it's more about being able to make silly topics that have no point to them, and to post stupid **** at your leisure. I mean, it's called "Stuff and Nonsense", not "Jerks and Harassment". |
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#67 Posted: 20:28:28 15/05/2015
Quote: Samius
Lighting the mood in situations like this is 90% the reason I'm here I got cho back :V |
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#68 Posted: 20:38:41 15/05/2015
Quote: StriderSwag
Yeah, it's cool. I was just reminded of how you snapped at Zer0dch on his topic for a moment there. |
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#69 Posted: 20:39:34 15/05/2015
one thing i'd like to know is the context behind this.
what pushed sooty into making a topic about new user discrimination exactly?
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#70 Posted: 20:45:08 15/05/2015
I think it was that topic about "uslanders"
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#71 Posted: 20:46:01 15/05/2015
Quote: MoonHorizons
I assume it was about something that Lunarz said to him, which he claimed to be a joke. Obviously sooty didn't feel the same way. |
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#72 Posted: 20:46:33 15/05/2015
Quote: MoonHorizons
something involving his other topic, i think "uslanders"
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#73 Posted: 20:49:26 15/05/2015
Quote: Samius
Yeah I know I just had a bad time that night and lost it We joked in other topics too, and if he's online I apologize, I just really snapped. |
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#74 Posted: 21:33:37 15/05/2015
Quote: Samius
I'm fine with being blunt or poking fun at other users in the section. I do it often as well and it's part of S&N. But there's a thin line between being blunt and outright being a jackass, and I definitely think that it isn't really right to make topics or trends about users who don't participate in S&N (often for a reason such as that). |
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#75 Posted: 22:39:16 15/05/2015
Quote: I-Brawler
It was that topic. returning user or not though, sooty DID make a point with making this topic about new user discrimination, though it's hard for me to talk about that when everything involving that subject has already been said.
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#76 Posted: 22:54:01 15/05/2015
Quote: CAV
Yeah, that's exactly what I meant (thus the "to put it mildly"-part). It's a difficult problem to tackle though, since pretty much any post can be taken out of context on interpreted incorrectly. |
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#77 Posted: 23:06:26 15/05/2015
I'm a little confused by people saying this section isn't welcoming seeing as I was able to fit right in with no trouble at all, but I guess it just sort of shows how I'm a little bit more experienced with this sort of thing in general?
I suppose my age (21) helps with that a little bit as well. I'm still fairly new so I don't really have much else to say about it.
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#78 Posted: 23:29:43 15/05/2015
Quote: Philomena
I suppose it did. You were obviously familiar with internet culture before you came here, and have seen other kinds of forums and communities before. But imagine that you were a kid, 10-13 years of age, and that this was the first internet forum you stumbled upon after making a google search about a new game that you got. The difference would be huge, at this age it's hard to even imagine because kids and teens simply don't react to things the same way than adults do. I joined this site when I was 14, when DotD came out. I was in luck since most users who are now old (like me) were in their teens too back then, so I fit in pretty well. English isn't my first language so my grammar was probably pretty abysmal, but no-one ever told me to learn to speak english before posting. People were friendly enough, answered my questions very patiently (a special mention goes to Crush, who already left darkSpyro years ago) and it really encouraged me to stay. I probably wouldn't have stuck around had people been mean to me. |
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#79 Posted: 23:41:58 15/05/2015
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#80 Posted: 01:08:37 16/05/2015
Quote: Philomena
I think it came with the shift of S&N from a board mean to house exclusively spam topics to a board for members of the site to "socialize" (and I use that term loosely here) in a way not related to Skylanders discussion. I don't know what some of these folks are going on about with certain users returning because that's been a problem going back to 2007. But since the site was so small back then and everyone went on every board, returning users didn't set off red flags. And since dark was actually active, those accounts got zapped much quicker. Now that A) it's been established that S&N is essentially this strange nexus that's taken on its own life and could practically spin off into its own forum, and B) 90% of new users are here for Skylanders, I get extremely suspicious when I see a new account pop up and make posts on this board. Of course, I'm a paranoid nut, so it's what I do. In your case, I had a vague recollection that CAV joined a MLP forum in his hiatus from the site, so the username/avatar combination brought that to mind. But I'd be lying if I said I didn't think at first you were a duplicate account. <.<
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#81 Posted: 03:20:04 16/05/2015
Huh, so they're gone....
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#82 Posted: 03:25:07 16/05/2015
Quote: HIR
Given this and what @Samius said (multi-quote isn't working for me for whatever reason), and everything else I understand so far, I guess it makes sense for me to have been considered a possible alt and for me to have easily laughed it off and taken the time to somewhat "prove" my individuality. Honestly it doesn't matter to me, as I said, I'm still pretty new here so any new person who shows up could easily be completely new or someone with plenty of experience with the site. I'm not even a fan of Spyro, I'm just here because, as mentioned, I'm a friend of CAV and wanted to get away from my previous forum, at least a little bit. I presume that helped me as well, considering he was able to vouch for me as being someone new and not an alt. Off-topic but I've seen mention off and on of a skype group. Is it mainly for people from S&N? If so I wouldn't mind getting added.
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#83 Posted: 03:29:12 16/05/2015
Quote: Philomena
*Randomly pops up* Anyone can join the Skype group, you can just ask CAV to add you. *Quietly leaves* |
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#84 Posted: 03:39:50 16/05/2015
Quote: StriderSwag
thats a lie and you know it |
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#85 Posted: 03:41:49 16/05/2015
Quote: arceustheprime
it's the truth except we're the ones who couldn't lift it one user could though his name was passed down the generations he became a legend dragon allen |
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#86 Posted: 04:36:56 16/05/2015
Quote: StriderSwag
no, it was the elevator that lifted it.
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#87 Posted: 04:46:56 16/05/2015
Quote: Philomena
There's a Skype group for dS people that I run. It's not necessarily strictly for S&N, but everyone in it are S&N regulars or used to be. If you want in let me know and I'll run things down before adding. |
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#88 Posted: 04:47:30 16/05/2015
Quote: MoonHorizons
An elevator isn't worthy. Or is it? It spends its whole life helping people... |
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#89 Posted: 06:04:50 16/05/2015
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#90 Posted: 06:22:57 16/05/2015
Why would he?
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#91 Posted: 06:24:05 16/05/2015
Quote: StriderSwag
It is worthy.
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#92 Posted: 11:54:25 16/05/2015
Quote: ViceEmargo
The reason I asumed you where Loco was due to his obsession of Spyro. His alt account Blisten got ripto'd not too long ago when you joined. It's a bit of a problem on my side. I'm a quick asumer. Again, I know that it is my fault and I'm realy sorry for saying you where an alt... Anyways, I do agree with everyone here. S&N is not always a welcoming place... I know the times where we just said "Hi welcome to ".Then again, who was Scooty123? I'm kind of curious... |
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#93 Posted: 11:58:37 16/05/2015
Just so you know, i don't discriminate against new users.
I quietly judge all of you. It's a fair system and it works
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#94 Posted: 12:58:53 16/05/2015
Quote: Greeble
Also this. Why only discriminate against one group of people when you can be judgemental of everyone that exists anywhere ever?
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#95 Posted: 14:17:20 16/05/2015
Quote: MoonHorizons
BECAUSE IT SPENDS ITS WHOLE LIFE HELPING PEOPLE DUH Quote: BlackWing116
I'm guessing Brightscales, but she got banned during my hiatus, so I don't know why she was ever banned. Quote: Greeble
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#96 Posted: 02:29:30 17/05/2015
Quote: StriderSwag
I feel a profile change coming on
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#97 Posted: 14:12:58 17/05/2015
RIP in Peace: sooty
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#98 Posted: 19:19:44 17/05/2015
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