darkSpyro

Yes, that is true, Seiki.
However .... I wrote that as a light-hearted gesture to lighten the mood and deflect the attention away from a bitter malcontent. You can say that whoever was "one of the nicer members", but even nice people can act like spoiled brats. And making a "I'm leaving and taking my toys with me because I'm outraged! Good-bye!" type post is exactly that -- acting like a spoiled child.

Would you have preferred that I verbally chastised that person for acting like a spoiled brat? Or now do you see that "don't let the door hit you on the way out!" was perhaps far more benign and un-serious than you thought?

Quote: BahamutBreaker

Yes, that is true, Seiki.
However .... I wrote that as a light-hearted gesture to lighten the mood and deflect the attention away from a bitter malcontent. You can say that whoever was "one of the nicer members", but even nice people can act like spoiled brats. And making a "I'm leaving and taking my toys with me because I'm outraged! Good-bye!" type post is exactly that -- acting like a spoiled child.

Would you have preferred that I verbally chastised that person for acting like a spoiled brat? Or now do you see that "don't let the door hit you on the way out!" was perhaps far more benign and un-serious than you thought?

As for what I would have preferred, it would be simply ignoring the post and going on about your day.

People make posts here along the lines of growing bored with the site or feeling unwelcome, etc, on a daily basis. These people tend to come back in a few hours or days. These often met with a simple goodbye or "we'll miss you" from a few, or the joke reponse of "kk see you in an hour".

Then of course because this is S&N, every now again you get the "I H8 chu all, I's leavin' 5evar!!" or more likely an actual topic devoted to it. These people never actually leave, merely aim to get a few lulz. Hell, I think I've made such a topic.

tl;dr

may leave for a week cruise around my b-day (June 12) but that's only in a few months

Quote: BahamutBreaker

Yes, that is true, Seiki.
However .... I wrote that as a light-hearted gesture to lighten the mood and deflect the attention away from a bitter malcontent. You can say that whoever was "one of the nicer members", but even nice people can act like spoiled brats. And making a "I'm leaving and taking my toys with me because I'm outraged! Good-bye!" type post is exactly that -- acting like a spoiled child.

Would you have preferred that I verbally chastised that person for acting like a spoiled brat? Or now do you see that "don't let the door hit you on the way out!" was perhaps far more benign and un-serious than you thought?

Holy **** please leave or mature. Or just don't post if it sounds remotely mean.

I decided to leave.... for the rest of the night.

Good night! ^.^

Quote: joerox123

Quote: BahamutBreaker

Yes, that is true, Seiki.
However .... I wrote that as a light-hearted gesture to lighten the mood and deflect the attention away from a bitter malcontent. You can say that whoever was "one of the nicer members", but even nice people can act like spoiled brats. And making a "I'm leaving and taking my toys with me because I'm outraged! Good-bye!" type post is exactly that -- acting like a spoiled child.

Would you have preferred that I verbally chastised that person for acting like a spoiled brat? Or now do you see that "don't let the door hit you on the way out!" was perhaps far more benign and un-serious than you thought?

Holy **** please leave or mature. Or just don't post if it sounds remotely mean.

Hypocrite much?

Quote: BahamutBreaker

Quote: joerox123

Quote: BahamutBreaker

Yes, that is true, Seiki.
However .... I wrote that as a light-hearted gesture to lighten the mood and deflect the attention away from a bitter malcontent. You can say that whoever was "one of the nicer members", but even nice people can act like spoiled brats. And making a "I'm leaving and taking my toys with me because I'm outraged! Good-bye!" type post is exactly that -- acting like a spoiled child.

Would you have preferred that I verbally chastised that person for acting like a spoiled brat? Or now do you see that "don't let the door hit you on the way out!" was perhaps far more benign and un-serious than you thought?

Holy **** please leave or mature. Or just don't post if it sounds remotely mean.

Hypocrite much?

pls go back to skylanders
EDIT: inb4 hypocrite much and tl;dr stuff

Wow Behamut, more like badbehavemud

sorry, I'm offended by you all the time!

@ ThroneOfMalefor: No.
@ NINJAsk11: you are the most easily-offended user on any forum I've ever been on, ever.

remember kids, don't be a dune bag.

And there's the gnorc <3 Cya Bahamut, have fun.

Welp, BahamutBreaker was gnorc'd, no surprise there. :U

He's a jerk. I wouldn't be surprised if he got Ripto'd.

I wonder what's so hard about "don't reply."

It seems that Bahamut somewhat feels the need to punch back or at least what people consider punching back.

Behavemudbreaker@: I am mentally ill you stupid goddarn frick, go suck some frogs!

How dare you offend me like that!

I mean EVERYONE knows what is wrong with me

Thank you for the spiritual tears you sock!

Quote: TacoMakerSkys

He's a jerk. I wouldn't be surprised if he got Ripto'd.

True, the only time I saw him post, it was really negative and mean stuff. So yeah, I really won't be surprised if he's gone for good.

Quote: NINJAsk11

Behavemudbreaker@: I am mentally ill you stupid goddarn frick, go suck some frogs!

How dare you offend me like that!

I mean EVERYONE knows what is wrong with me

Thank you for the spiritual tears you sock!

I didn't know.

True, but you do not mantally hurt me, instead, you seem like a nice person


How many times did behavemudbreaker got a gnorc?

Quote: MoonHorizons

It seems that Bahamut somewhat feels the need to punch back or at least what people consider punching back.

He said something about that sometime before, I feel like it's just his cheap excuse.

Quote: NINJAsk11

True, but you do not mantally hurt me, instead, you seem like a nice person


How many times did behavemudbreaker got a gnorc?

This is his 2nd or 3rd time iirc.

Please Ripto please.....I got enough of him

Pest got what was in store for him.
Best way to come home from school. :v

He's un-gnorced. That was fast.

Nooooooooo

He got Gnorced for being mean?

Quote: NINJAsk11

Nooooooooo

Just don't reply to him. You're letting him get to you.

To be very honest, if his comments on this topic were what got him suspended, then I don't believe the suspension was necessary, especially considering the comments that some other users have gotten away with. Although I suppose considering the suspension was so short...

I'll be taking an absence from here. How long, I don't know. I just really need to get my grades up and this site is always on my mind. So, have fun everybody~


kk guys see you in an hour

Quote: NINJAsk11

Please Ripto please.....I got enough of him
;_;

That's just as cold as him.

How do you all get that snow in your avatars XC

I need it for Pikachu~

Quote: Bash28

How do you all get that snow in your avatars XC

I need it for Pikachu~

I'll put the snow in for you.~ But...Might have to reduce the color or make less snowing like depending on the size. ;

Oh ok ^.^

So nice

There ya go! I didn't seem to have to reduce anything!

Which was strange, the one I made was 120 KB. O.o

Edit: This one to be exact, the avatar I have on right now, I had to reduce the color because of the size, but didn't have to do anything like that with yours!

Oh I forgot that counts as a gif ;~;

I'll get on my computer tomorrow and update it!

Thanks so much! ^.^

Quote: Bash28

Oh I forgot that counts as a gif ;~;

I'll get on my computer tomorrow and update it!

Thanks so much! ^.^

You're welcome! b

Ha ha, yeah, most moving images count as a GIF.

Yeah~ ^.^

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Quote: NINJAsk11

True, but you do not mantally hurt me, instead, you seem like a nice person


How many times did behavemudbreaker got a gnorc?

This is his 2nd or 3rd time iirc.

This is at least his 3rd.

Quote: Aura24

He's un-gnorced. That was fast.

Yes, that's correct. I was unjustly suspended. I do not know who decided to suspend my account earlier today, but suffice it to say that person's decision was overruled and s/he was admonished by somebody in a higher position of authority on these forums for suspending my account without sufficient cause.

Listen, I'm not here to try to make friends and stroke egos. I think that's perhaps the biggest disconnect between myself and a cluster of regular users here. If you want to pretend that everyone out there in the world is always going to treat you with insincere kindness 24-7, with rainbow confetti, sugar sprinkles, and My Little Pony stickers attached to everything, then you go on living that fantasy ... just ignore me. I won't mind. But please don't pretend for even a second that I'm some sinister evil deviant ... if you believe that, then you have an extremely naive and unrealistic perspective about what the world is like. If you can't handle what I dish out, which is extremely mild in the grand scheme of things, then the real world is going to chew you up and spit you back out.

It's not my job to teach you about the world. But it sure as hell ain't my job to shield you from it, either. If you believe that I am "negative" or a "meanie", then I would propose that you really have no idea what it's like to be treated negatively or meanly. In short, drop your false illusions, grow some stones, stop pretending that the world owes you kindness, and if you can't do those things, then just ignore me .... but know that you can't ignore reality forever.

Quote: BahamutBreaker

Quote: Aura24

He's un-gnorced. That was fast.

Yes, that's correct. I was unjustly suspended. I do not know who decided to suspend my account earlier today, but suffice it to say that person's decision was overruled and s/he was admonished by somebody in a higher position of authority on these forums for suspending my account without sufficient cause.

Only Dark. But he doesn't care about us.

^ @ somePerson: and I'm supposedly the "negative" voice around here?

Some people get onto the internet to escape reality, sure, both the internet and reality isn't sunshine and rainbows, but some people are already dealing with reality, school, work, etc...

I don't think what people need is a swift kick to send them back into reality, some aren't strong enough to take it, sometimes it's not their fault for being weak because they've lived through traumatic events or a bad reality already.

Yes, there maybe not so good people in the world, that doesn't mean the kind people are completely gone, it could be said that one should get off the internet if they're not strong enough, but some of the best friends and people are online too.

Words, even in text, can still hurt just the same as spoken words, or they can heal, words aren't to be taken lightly when given in both online and offline, people are as much connected to their emotions online as they are offline, one cannot expect one to be emotionless or feelingless online or to words.

Yay, my boss gives me a free day, time for MORE DarkSpyro yay!


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Beheamut@: sorry but whatever you say it hurts (speaking by myself)

Both parties are wrong and right.
Bahamut used a phrase wrongly and the other party against is being too dramatic over it.

I've seen some of you supporting mean users and be mean along side them, but when Bahamut does it by mistake it's suddenly not ok?
What he did in this topic could have been done in a better way, I admit that. He could have simply replied "I didn't meant it that way. Sorry that it came out that way" and kept pushing it. I mean, he kinda did at first, in which some of you told him that he was wrong. Ha ha, seriously. Someone told him that he was wrong and that he did meant to be mean. When he clearly said he didn't. I mean, come on. That's like asking someone for desert and they reply with "No. I don't want any" and the waiter says "No. You do want desert." Pfff!

What should've been done was correct him and nothing more. Say what the phrase he used actually meant and that it can't be used in a light hearted way. Which! Was what Seiki did! However, Bahamut did a no no there! He said that it could be used in the way he did. Not only that but he also did something that can come of as insulting to the user. He covered it up with "Treating a spoiled child/brat"
Seiki replied with a reasonable answered.

After that Joe did something unnecessary. Which brought Bahamut back to do whatever he's doing. What Bahamut said to Joe was pretty true. Since Joe was being in a way that could be seen as mean.
Did Bahamut need to reply? No. Did Joe did the right thing in telling him that? No.
We have learned that Bahamut replies to anything he finds offensive. So unless Joe didn't know about that, he basically wanted Bahamut to fight him.

After that was just whining. Some users talking bad about him and how he should be Ripto for being mean. In my opinion, that's unnecessary. I also found the Gnorc thing unnecessary. Though, he did said somethings to Ninjask that weren't very nice. Same the other way around.

Like I said, both parties are wrong. Bahamut could answer more gently, we are dealing with kids after all. And the other team could have ignored him! If they wanted to answer, they could've don it in a more calm matter.

Anyways.
It seems he doesn't want to be gentle because of the typical "Real world is not like that". It's true, but from that it seems Bahamut is ok with being "rude".
Don't you think is better to better one's self to be able to get along with others?

This is what I have seen. Since this is the way I see it, I see both to be wrong and right. I can't say the same for what I have not seen.


Quote: Dark Lord

Some people get onto the internet to escape reality, sure, both the internet and reality isn't sunshine and rainbows, but some people are already dealing with reality, school, work, etc...

I don't think what people need is a swift kick to send them back into reality, some aren't strong enough to take it, sometimes it's not their fault for being weak because they've lived through traumatic events or a bad reality already.

Yes, there maybe not so good people in the world, that doesn't mean the kind people are completely gone, it could be said that one should get off the internet if they're not strong enough, but some of the best friends and people are online too.

Words, even in text, can still hurt just the same as spoken words, or they can heal, words aren't to be taken lightly when given in both online and offline, people are as much connected to their emotions online as they are offline, one cannot expect one to be emotionless or feelingless online or to words.

Agree.

(Sorry 2x post)

Also can we stop all the fight and GET A LIFE? I am sure that, if we all ignore beheamut, this simply stops? Just a suggestion?....

Quote: NINJAsk11

(Sorry 2x post)

Also can we stop all the fight and GET A LIFE? I am sure that, if we all ignore beheamut, this simply stops? Just a suggestion?..../shrug

We have a life. Even if it's spent staring at a monitor for the whole day.
And yes, just ignore if he displeases you. :V

Get a life is a term I exculy use as a....welll....nevermind......

Quote: NINJAsk11

(Sorry 2x post)

Also can we stop all the fight and GET A LIFE? I am sure that, if we all ignore beheamut, this simply stops? Just a suggestion?..../shrug

Uh, purposefully(?) misspelling his username in every post is not going to help diffuse the situation in any way. <.>

And just to put this argument to rest (even though I don't like commenting on suspensions), yes, dark overrode it because saying "Don't let the door hit you on the way out" is not justifiable for suspension and, in this specific case, you guys provoked Bahamut this time around with your responses to that comment. You have the power to ignore him just as he has the power to ignore you. Just because Bahamut doesn't always ignore you guys doesn't mean you have to respond. The universe won't explode if you choose to ignore him, or so I've been told. *shrug*

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Quote: NINJAsk11

(Sorry 2x post)

Also can we stop all the fight and GET A LIFE? I am sure that, if we all ignore beheamut, this simply stops? Just a suggestion?....

Uh, purposefully(?) misspelling his username in every post is not going to help diffuse the situation in any way. <.>

It's not intentionally, I think.

yeah, it turned out that way.... yay.....