darkSpyro

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I'm just saying I'm noticing a slight pattern.

This. Noticed it a long time ago.

To be honest I think most of us have. It's sorta obvious, as I'm sure you guys agree.

Quote: zer0dch

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TBH, if the girl didn't have a good reason to say 'No' before, I think she does now.

Quote: Samius

To be honest I think most of us have. It's sorta obvious, as I'm sure you guys agree.

this, too

Can you guys spill out the pattern? That I get upset when I get dumped/rejected?

Well, who doesn't? It's pretty clear that you didn't laugh just it off, since you made a topic about it to call this girl stupid for having values of her own. It just seemed like you were really bitter about it for a few days or so, which I'm sure is true at least to some extent.
And look how this situation played out in the end. There was a girl that you had feelings for and vice versa, that's never a "small" thing emotionally. She rejected you (for what I'm sure seemed like a really small reason to you), and you dropped all contact. Just like that.
Not only that, but you sent all her messages to your "BFF" so that you could laugh at her together, further entrenching yourself to the idea that this girl is dumb for not wanting a relationship with you for her own reasons.

And it's not just this topic, or all the other topics you've made about all the hot girls that you've met, it's also that in conjunction with -for example- what was going on between you and Avatari. I can only speculate on what exactly happened, but I sure saw how you reacted to whatever it was. You spent a good while simultaneously trying to apologize to her, and getting back at her (calling her dumb, hotheaded, etc.), which made no sense to me.
Anyway, at that time she was a good friend of yours (I know you made up and are friends again now), so I'm sure you felt pretty awful back then.

All of this kinda adds up to the hypothesis that you take rejection really heavily. Don't get me wrong, I can also understand why that would be, since you've talked about having problems with your family, your low confidence and your not-so-great situation with your friends. So I'm not blaming you for being that way if it's true, it's just an observation that I've made.
I empathize with you, and I really hope you can resolve things like this with less negativity involved in the future.

Quote: Big Green

yeah it makes sense to be upset when you are rejected but calling the girl stupid for rejecting you comes across as you wanting nothing more than sex since you are always talking about how hot these girls are. i feel like if you really cared about these girls you wouldn't immediately resort to calling them whores if they dare to not want to date you.

That's actually something that I forgot to mention (or I did mention it, but I didn't explain it the same way). I does contribute a lot to that image.

Quote: zer0dch

I pretty much for rejected for something 99.9% of people do and it just baffle's me, OK? Like out of absolute anything, it just blows my mind. I understand that she things its wrong, but to completely lose interest in someone just like that? It just isn't right...

The topics I made are a result of me and my friend making a large inside joke about it all, because we started to laugh at it all. It was really silly (call me a douche for this, but w/e).

Can you not get into what is not your business with avatari and I? Does the whole world need to know? **** dude, I already feel ****ing awful as it is for getting other people involved, and she's does to. I wish people would stop bringing it up. I already know others were talking about it behind my back and vice versa. It really makes me feel ****ty. Of course I was angry. At the point of when her and I weren't talking, I was really confused a bit, but I realized that I was just really angry with myself and how I reacted. I feel lucky and to be honest blessed as it is to have someone like her to call my best friend. She practically knows my life story and vice versa and we're BFF's. I really, really, really don't want to ever lose that sort of friendship again. I can't believe I needed to clarify that....ugh.

I know it looks like I'm angry and bitter about this Christian girl I met...but I'm really not. I was upset about it for a bit, but I just laughed it off. I acknowledge that I'm probably a jerk to most people because I'm making close inside jokes about it, but sheesh. Didn't need to analyze how I think and feel, dude.

I don't understand it either, but it's no less just a question of personal values.

It was an observation, I wasn't talking about anything you did not display in public. And about others talking about it before me, I was not aware of that.
I'm also not involving anybody else in your personal lives. As I said, I don't even know what happened back then. If mentioning it in public makes you feel bad I apologize, of course, and I won't do it again. I just hope you recognize the impact it had on a lot of people's opinions.
Still, in the end I think it's better for you to have learned something about the value of your friendship. And I personally think that your friendship with Avatari now is all the more beautiful, having seen harder times and still survived.

Analyzing is what I do. You're not alone under that magnifying glass. I'm sure you've gotten over what happened by now, but your initial response was the one in question.