darkSpyro

Whether it's looks, mindset, etc, post it.

I never really had a problem with my personality or how I take things into matter, but I have low self-esteem when it comes to my skin pigment. I tend to think of myself as a good looking guy, I just don't like being pasty white. I'm not ginger white, but I'm definitely white white.

I know there are girls who like pale guys and such, but it feels like such a low blow to me. Otherwise, I'm pretty social and seem to get some ladies xP I just wish I wasn't as white lol

/vent

Post your insecurities, others pat each other on the back.

A lot of ****

Quote: AvatariDragon

A lot of ****

Err, you can vent if you need to.

I'm super pale. It usually doesn't bother me, but I feel like paper compared to my super tan friends. I don't tan, I burn.
My hair. I hate blonde, and humidity turns it into a beast.
also i have ocd thats sorta painful for those around me

Um...everything?

Quite a bit. Would rather not go into many of them now or in public.

Though one worth noting is my physical ability. I'm not unfit or anything (was badminton champion in my school) but I tend to feel inferior to others, and as a result out of shape.

Not that many. I don't really have a low self-esteem when it comes to looks or personality.

If anything, sometimes I can have small insecurities that go away after a small ammount of time.

Arguably the most common one to appear would have to be mixing up my 2 languages languages and making me unable to speak clearly.

Quote: CAV

Quite a bit. Would rather not go into many of them now or in public.

Though one worth noting is my physical ability. I'm not unfit or anything (was badminton champion in my school) but I tend to feel inferior to others, and as a result out of shape.

I know that feel bro. I don't lift weights, but I was slim and eating healthy. Once college started and ended, I gained thirty pounds. I'm not fat, nor am I really unfit, I just wish I could lose this weight faster. Just average...but still.

It's been like thirteen days without soda (I started drinking a crap load of it during my freshman year) and I feel fine, I guess. I absolutely rely on coffee though. Hoping to lose the possible soda belly I was developing ._.

Having this god damn wart on my leg :I
Oh and soon to be acne.

I get shy or nervous very easily. '~'

Uhh... Khakhis

I crumple under pressure very easily.

My main insecurity is my face. Sorry to sound like I'm trying to garter attention (I need to say that every time I mention I don't like my appearance because I'm sick of "oh you're just being an attention whore and fishing for compliments boo hoo"), but it's definitely the main insecurity I have. I just don't like my facial structure or any of my features besides my eyes, nose, and lips. Mother****ing acne really doesn't help. Not to mention I'm insecure about my hair because it's extremely frizzy, oily, and always falling in my face.

I don't let that bring me down anymore, though. It's not that important to me. Others like to try to bring me down for it (cuz it, like, so matters, like lulz) but eh, who really cares when you're relatively satisfied with your personality and you have great friends and family.

Other than that, just smaller things. Another worth mentioning is coming off as too whiny sometimes, so my apologies if I ever do.

Dandruff.

im still waiting for my pimple phase to end

Paranoia, so no way I'm telling you any of my major problems.

Anti-Social.
Very shy.
Extremely sensitive.
Gets upset over insignificant things.
Takes things too seriously.
Lacks patience.
Always assumes the worst.

shy and paranoid (tho im working on both and im definitely improving
also my nose
and my grandmother was irish so im whiter than white

paranoid ( I treat every wound on my body like the bone has been exposed from it )

I look like a piece of paper.

Sensitive IRL.

Lazy.

Dandruff.

Weaker then other people.

• shy as ****
  
• i hate everything about my appearance/body
  
• i'm way too sensitive
  
• anxiety is a *****
  
• i'm annoying as ****
  
• i can't make friends to save my life
  

uhhh there are a lot more but i can't think of them
good enough

anxious about everything pretty much
unmotivated
kind of a dick
a bit gullible
acne
legs are too big and have lots of unexplained bruises all over them
and worst of all...my crippling inability to do the kaio-ken technique from dragon ball z

Quote: Thunderdragon14

• shy as ****
  
• i hate everything about my appearance/body
  
• i'm way too sensitive
  
• anxiety is a *****
  
• i'm annoying as ****
  
• i can't make friends to save my life
  

uhhh there are a lot more but i can't think of them
good enough

Why?
I wish I could have a body like this

Quote: xXBeavcoonXx

Quote: Thunderdragon14

• shy as ****
  
• i hate everything about my appearance/body
  
• i'm way too sensitive
  
• anxiety is a *****
  
• i'm annoying as ****
  
• i can't make friends to save my life
  

uhhh there are a lot more but i can't think of them
good enough

Why?
I wish I could have a body like this

it's not that i'm not HOT AS HELL or anything it's like
i HATE it when people stare at me and i'm constantly wearing like HOODIES and **** in the dying heat of summer to cover everything up

yes imagine an ostrich in a hoodie

Quote: Thunderdragon14

Quote: xXBeavcoonXx

Quote: Thunderdragon14

• shy as ****
  
• i hate everything about my appearance/body
  
• i'm way too sensitive
  
• anxiety is a *****
  
• i'm annoying as ****
  
• i can't make friends to save my life
  

uhhh there are a lot more but i can't think of them
good enough

Why?
I wish I could have a body like this

it's not that i'm not HOT AS HELL or anything it's like
i HATE it when people stare at me and i'm constantly wearing like HOODIES and **** in the dying heat of summer to cover everything up

yes imagine an ostrich in a hoodie

Already was.

Oh jeez.

-My teeth

-My weight

-I'm always scared that I'm not funny enough

-My voice

-My presence..seriously, I'm always worried that people don't want me around

My nose

-My face looks like a 3-year-old (IMO, but this might be a side affect of my Hydrocephalus)

-Incredibly Paranoid (which is ironic, because one of my favourite songs is titled "Paranoid")

-Slightly Sadistic

-Aspergers Syndrome

-Dyslexia

-Hydrocephalus

-OCD

-Disabled

-(I think I'm) Going blind

-My worst fear is a song

-Everything I know from when I was 3 scares me

I think I've forgotten some, though.

I can't deal with crowds...

I've never been to a therapist or counselor or psychologist, and haven't been to a doctor for anything other than eyes, teeth, or feet problems in like over a decade, so Idk if I'd be diagnosed with anything or not.

I guess another I can list is a crippling inability to find a skill I'm good at (or rather, one I enjoy). It makes me feel like the untalented or dumb one when in a group, leading to a sort of "third wheel complex". It's a blow to my self esteem whenever I start to think about it.

Quote: CAV

I guess another I can list is a crippling inability to find a skill I'm good at (or rather, one I enjoy). It makes me feel like the untalented or dumb one when in a group, leading to a sort of "third wheel complex". It's a blow to my self esteem whenever I start to think about it.

Yeah, me too. I was rather precocious as a young child but it evened out as I got older but everyone still expected me to be super genius and smart and talented and I really don't feel that I am at all.

Nothing I would tell you.

Quote: Qcumber

-My face looks like a 3-year-old (IMO, but this might be a side affect of my Hydrocephalus)

-Incredibly Paranoid (which is ironic, because one of my favourite songs is titled "Paranoid")

-Slightly Sadistic

-Aspergers Syndrome

-Dyslexia

-Hydrocephalus

-OCD

-Disabled

-(I think I'm) Going blind

-My worst fear is a song

-Everything I know from when I was 3 scares me

I think I've forgotten some, though.

Quote: Samius

I have some small insecurities, but I don't think about them. I don't acknowledge them. I don't accept them.
And I won't talk about them.

Because they don't matter. Because my flaws don't define me.

It's a game of mind. Many people suffer from debilitating insecurities to the point that they're too afraid to reach their completely realistic, reasonable goals. I won't let that be me, if I can help it.

@Samius That's the right attitude to have. You're a very strong willed person, I can tell, because I am also very strong willed.

@Qcumber I have Aspergers Syndrome too, but I didn't let it get me down as a child, even though I had little or no control of it at that time and needed help in doing so. As I got older, it ended up being a very valuable asset to me and it still is.

Meh, I have acne on my shoulders and back and I have a problem with my sweat glands so I have to wear pads under my shirts
Also I eat and don't gain weight so I have like no muscle
Also my eating habits, bleh, I want to eat better but it's hard to change your life so drastically
Also I tend to get a bit annoying at times, I'll usually bug a person alot and I hate that
also my hair omf, I keep needing to cut it for it to be sexy
I also have a gap between my teeth and my teeth suck and so does my smile so I tend to just smirk
I can't sing as good as I want to and it makes me so annoyed
I also think I'm not a good enough actor, and that's the worst, cuz I want to act, it's not like I have low self esteem or whatever, I just really don't think I'm good enough despite having the look and ability to memorize a movie script in two days.

Quote: Lunarz

Meh, I have acne on my shoulders and back and I have a problem with my sweat glands so I have to wear pads under my shirts
Also I eat and don't gain weight so I have like no muscle
Also my eating habits, bleh, I want to eat better but it's hard to change your life so drastically
Also I tend to get a bit annoying at times, I'll usually bug a person alot and I hate that
also my hair omf, I keep needing to cut it for it to be sexy
I also have a gap between my teeth and my teeth suck and so does my smile so I tend to just smirk
I can't sing as good as I want to and it makes me so annoyed
I also think I'm not a good enough actor, and that's the worst, cuz I want to act, it's not like I have low self esteem or whatever, I just really don't think I'm good enough despite having the look and ability to memorize a movie script in two days.

I was like that regarding weight and muscle, just start using small maybe 3-6 lb. handweights whenever you watch or something like, it's not hard but over time you really will start gaining noticeable muscles, and doing lots of push-ups will give results once you're doing them enough

How I look, I suppose. I try my best to look and act as normal as possible, so there's also my behavior.
My personality..uh, it seems this one doesn't cause too much trouble. Though, I am trying to find a way to be...better?

I try not to think about it too much. Usually the topic comes to mind every two months? Maybe three.

my anxiety is crippling >:^(

Ahahaahaha

Quote: Lunarz

Meh, I have acne on my shoulders and back and I have a problem with my sweat glands so I have to wear pads under my shirts
Also I eat and don't gain weight so I have like no muscle
Also my eating habits, bleh, I want to eat better but it's hard to change your life so drastically
Also I tend to get a bit annoying at times, I'll usually bug a person alot and I hate that
also my hair omf, I keep needing to cut it for it to be sexy
I also have a gap between my teeth and my teeth suck and so does my smile so I tend to just smirk
I can't sing as good as I want to and it makes me so annoyed
I also think I'm not a good enough actor, and that's the worst, cuz I want to act, it's not like I have low self esteem or whatever, I just really don't think I'm good enough despite having the look and ability to memorize a movie script in two days.

if you inject botox in to your armpits your sweat problen will stop.

Low self-esteem.