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Can't believe this happened. [CLOSED]
Metallo Platinum Sparx Gems: 6419
#1 Posted: 21:20:51 21/05/2013 | Topic Creator
Let's say you were in an on and off relationship with someone for 3 years. They constantly hurt you, betrayed you, backstabbed you, left you repeatedly for no good reason, and despite it all, you still stayed with them out of nothing but love. Finally, when things are starting to look up, they randomly message you saying they finally had sex with the person they kept leaving you for.

................"Bye" was all I could say.
papa123 Yellow Sparx Gems: 1372
#2 Posted: 21:23:35 21/05/2013
No, I actually can't.
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X-Treme Ripto Gems: 360
#3 Posted: 21:23:36 21/05/2013
Then I'd sign her up for the "biggest douchebag ever" award. Seriously, that's one messed up person, who WANTS to make you feel bad, and gets pleasure out of rubbing it in your face.
Metallo Platinum Sparx Gems: 6419
#4 Posted: 21:26:37 21/05/2013 | Topic Creator
Times like these make me wonder if everyone has the right to breathe.
X-Treme Ripto Gems: 360
#5 Posted: 21:29:28 21/05/2013
Quote: Metallo
Times like these make me wonder if everyone has the right to breathe.



She sure doesn't. I'd just try my best to forget about her.
somePerson Diamond Sparx Gems: 8459
#6 Posted: 21:35:09 21/05/2013
I can't believe that happen.
thumper Ripto Gems: 3519
#7 Posted: 21:39:21 21/05/2013
Dang Metallo, it sure does look like you're being used by her. Don't you think that MAYBE you should realize it's not going to stop. She keeps playing with your emotions and unfortunately you're falling for it. I would highly suggest that you don't go back to her and find a girl that will treat you right. You know what she did by texting you, she wanted to see how you would react, so your reaction should be, don't take her back!
wspyro Emerald Sparx Gems: 4422
#8 Posted: 21:41:19 21/05/2013
Sorry that happened, but did you not expect this, Metallo?
After being constantly stabbed and hurt for 3 years.

Quote: thumper
Dang Metallo, it sure does look like you're being used by her. Don't you think that MAYBE you should realize it's not going to stop. She keeps playing with your emotions and unfortunately you're falling for it. I would highly suggest that you don't go back to her and find a girl that will treat you right. You know what she did by texting you, she wanted to see how you would react, so your reaction should be, don't take her back!


Exactly.
Erase all the ways you have to contact her. If you see her, pretend she's not there if you can't control your emotions.
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sniper52 Yellow Sparx Gems: 1306
#9 Posted: 21:44:36 21/05/2013
That girl was a b*tch then. That wasnt nice. Let her go and imagine her falling into a pit that is endless. That will make you feel better.
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Ice Dragoness Diamond Sparx Gems: 7896
#10 Posted: 21:45:59 21/05/2013
If you love someone but know that they aren't doing you any good you should end them. The longer you leave it the harder it will be in the future.
I know it's hard but you have to get rid of them while you can.

Might not feel like it at the time but you will eventually get over them.

Also you don't deserve someone who does things like that.
And don't have sex with them as you'll regret it in the future. They don't love you properly (if they did they wouldn't treat you like that).
Metallo Platinum Sparx Gems: 6419
#11 Posted: 21:47:54 21/05/2013 | Topic Creator
I've never had sex with her. But the last time I left her and erased all contact, she attempted suicide.....
wspyro Emerald Sparx Gems: 4422
#12 Posted: 21:49:24 21/05/2013
Could you contact someone close to her that can keep an eye on her? Maybe family?
Metallo Platinum Sparx Gems: 6419
#13 Posted: 21:51:25 21/05/2013 | Topic Creator
Quote: wspyro
Could you contact someone close to her that can keep an eye on her? Maybe family?



Family hates her. She has no real friends besides me.
Ice Dragoness Diamond Sparx Gems: 7896
#14 Posted: 21:52:58 21/05/2013
Quote: Metallo
Quote: wspyro
Could you contact someone close to her that can keep an eye on her? Maybe family?



Family hates her. She has no real friends besides me.



That guy seems to be her friend!
with benefits
thumper Ripto Gems: 3519
#15 Posted: 21:55:11 21/05/2013
Quote: Metallo
I've never had sex with her. But the last time I left her and erased all contact, she attempted suicide.....



The thing is you deserve to be happy. Why should she control you? First of all love is blind but she added stupid to it as well, Whether you leave her now or after the next time she rubs it in your face that she had sex with someone else, don't you think it is time to just leave her? Protect your emotions for once. You can even do this without trying to get revenge, just walk away, whatever she does to herself, oh well, carry on with your life. Metallo, think of yourself for once, find someone else and be happy.
Metallo Platinum Sparx Gems: 6419
#16 Posted: 21:56:10 21/05/2013 | Topic Creator
Quote: thumper
Quote: Metallo
I've never had sex with her. But the last time I left her and erased all contact, she attempted suicide.....



The thing is you deserve to be happy. Why should she control you? First of all love is blind but she added stupid to it as well, Whether you leave her now or after the next time she rubs it in your face that she had sex with someone else, don't you think it is time to just leave her? Protect your emotions for once. You can even do this without trying to get revenge, just walk away, whatever she does to herself, oh well, carry on with your life. Metallo, think of yourself for once, find someone else and be happy.



I'll try. Thanks smilie
wspyro Emerald Sparx Gems: 4422
#17 Posted: 22:00:59 21/05/2013
Quote: Metallo
Quote: wspyro
Could you contact someone close to her that can keep an eye on her? Maybe family?



Family hates her. She has no real friends besides me.



Harsh.
I do believe that you should forget her and be happy living your life without her. Just completely loose connections with her.
I just hope she doesn't go as far as killing herself, though.
arceustheprime Ripto Gems: 5362
#18 Posted: 22:12:04 21/05/2013

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wanderist Platinum Sparx Gems: 7081
#19 Posted: 22:14:06 21/05/2013
I agree with thumper and wspyro. That's just...wrong. I'm sorry that happened to you. I know it must be hard. ):
Ghakimx Emerald Sparx Gems: 4064
#20 Posted: 15:42:06 22/05/2013
i don't bother with people who waste my time and emotions.
Samius Hunter Gems: 9242
#21 Posted: 16:28:41 22/05/2013
Most unfortunate, but she isn't the only one that made things end up the way they did for you. You'll get over it eventually, having learned much.

Don't hate her for what happened; In the end it doesn't make it any better. But also, don't forget what she did to you. Stay proud and move on.
X-Treme Ripto Gems: 360
#22 Posted: 17:18:28 22/05/2013
That is a good reason not to get too attached to people.
Big Green Platinum Sparx Gems: 6345
#23 Posted: 18:13:31 22/05/2013
Quote: X-Treme
That is a good reason not to get too attached to people.


No; it's a good reason to be careful who you get attached to.
thumper Ripto Gems: 3519
#24 Posted: 19:18:14 22/05/2013
Quote: X-Treme
That is a good reason not to get too attached to people.



smilie

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DragonCamo Platinum Sparx Gems: 6606
#25 Posted: 20:10:02 22/05/2013
Quote: Big Green
Quote: X-Treme
That is a good reason not to get too attached to people.


No; it's a good reason to be careful who you get attached to.


for once i agree with you

Quote: Pixilism
First rule in how to make relationships last: Don't be X-Treme.


*puts in 10 commandments*

Quote: thumper
Quote: X-Treme
That is a good reason not to get too attached to people.



smilie

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Skyhunter Diamond Sparx Gems: 8936
#26 Posted: 20:30:45 22/05/2013
See, this is why I decided I'd be single for life.

No offense.
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X-Treme Ripto Gems: 360
#27 Posted: 01:00:36 23/05/2013
Quote: Pixilism
First rule in how to make relationships last: Don't be X-Treme.



Why would i want a relationship if they treated me like this? To hell with love.
slambam104 Gold Sparx Gems: 2464
#28 Posted: 01:07:36 23/05/2013
Wow...............well I believe that is sad and cruel and you should leave her , but if she is going to commit suicide uhhhhhhhhhhh that's a problem......
wspyro Emerald Sparx Gems: 4422
#29 Posted: 01:14:26 23/05/2013
Quote: X-Treme
Quote: Pixilism
First rule in how to make relationships last: Don't be X-Treme.



Why would i want a relationship if they treated me like this? To hell with love.



Not everyone is like this, niggs.
But I'm sure you must know that.
Trix Master 100 Diamond Sparx Gems: 8190
#30 Posted: 05:33:45 23/05/2013
Well, that's terrible. I'm sorry that happened to you. Try to forget about that hooker ***** you used to love. You can do much better.
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StriderSwag Gold Sparx Gems: 2769
#31 Posted: 06:19:02 23/05/2013
murder them
crystalhero37 Platinum Sparx Gems: 5332
#32 Posted: 07:59:01 23/05/2013
I'm so sorry that this has happened to you, like others have said: Forget about her and try to move on, even though it may be hard. You don't deserve this, no one does.
X-Treme Ripto Gems: 360
#33 Posted: 10:38:22 23/05/2013
Quote: Pixilism
Quote: X-Treme
Quote: Pixilism
First rule in how to make relationships last: Don't be X-Treme.



Why would i want a relationship if they treated me like this? To hell with love.



How to say "I'm gay" in only 16 words.



Riiiiiiight. I just wouldn't want someone to come along and betray me like metallo. That could happen in a gay relationship, too.
Metallo Platinum Sparx Gems: 6419
#34 Posted: 01:41:54 24/05/2013 | Topic Creator
Quote: Sesshomaru75
Dear Metallo -

I'm sorry to hear that that happened to you. smilie That's just plain awful what she did. I don't think you should hate her, but rather move on with your life and wait until you find someone better, because I know you can do so much better. It might be hard to get over her and move on, but I'm sure that you can do it. You seem to be a tough guy, so I'm sure that you'll do fine and find a much better person who won't treat you like trash like she did. And don't forget what she did to you so that it doesn't happen again, either with her or someone else. However, try to look forward and move on. I know that I am really contradicting myself by saying not to forget what she did to you but also to move on, but hopefully you understand what I mean. And you seem to be a smart guy, so I'm sure that you can make some sense out of my nonsense. lol Anyways, I wish the best for you in the future and hope that you find someone better who won't treat you like dirt. Good luck and happy hunting. smilie

~ Sincerely, your pal that you have never even talked to before in your life (or at least I think), Sess.



Thanks smilie
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