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That's a very idiotic thing to believe in today's harshly judgement world. Everyone hates themselves to a very small degree. No matter what. Growing up female, it is impossible not to have to think of others opinions on you with the way you dress and the way you act and carry yourself etc. Males have it much easier in this world because someone isn't going to judge them, and then hurt them physically. Yes. People. Including myself. Shouldn't be so harsh on themselves. Once you are into the mind set. It is very difficult to get out. As a person who's brain is broken, and literally won't allow me to be happy, it's real ****ing hard to start liking myself. My point in making this. Think of other people's situations before you judge. And maybe. Just maybe. Reach a hand out and help them. You could use your past experience to help them. Not all people, like myself. Would want that help. But it's better then siting on the sidelines b**ching about us.

I'm sorry, I don't usually like to start ****, but I can't this go.
I can't exactly blame you as you probably haven't had first hand experience (guessing you're female, correct me if i'm wrong).
I wouldn't say that males have it worse, but I would say that it's pretty much equal to females. The best example I can come up with is if a male showed stereotypical "feminine" behavior. If a guy liked something like sewing, cooking, cleaning, designing or things that seemed more like female interests, they get ****. If a guy shows any "femininity", they immediately get ragged on and called gay or words I don't feel like saying. At least from my perspective and experiences, these more "feminine" guys have to be extremely careful what they do and how they act. They have to walk right, they have to talk right, they have to show interest in the rights things. One slip up, and you're being called a homosexual. Not only that, many of these "homophobes" are known to assault people they believe are homosexual. What's even worse is if you are gay. You have to go through life (school for me) hiding who you are and being afraid of everyone who looks at you. You have to go through every day wondering if those girls over there are talking about you being gay, if that person who looked at you knows you like guys, if you're going to get beat up when you walk into the locker room. What would happen if you were out? Would they allow you in the locker rooms at all or would they force you to change somewhere else? Growing up in the country isn't the best place either. It's customary for "bullies" to prey on people they feel are weaker. Usually, they believe that guys that show feminine qualities are weaker and so feed on them. I understand that not everyone is the same and maybe some people don't give a **** about what other people think or aren't afraid to be who they are. This is only one example but I still believe that men do not have it easier in this horrible world.

I completely understand where you are coming from. Girls have the same problem when they act to "manly". But my main point in saying that. Makes get paid more. Males don't have to worry (other than what you said) about getting judged. What my main point was. Read what you molded. The end. Physically hurt. Ie. Rape. Girls have to worry about males unable to control themselves because they were "asking for it" that's an extra step girls have to take. My stepfather criticizes each and every outfit I wear. Because "boys may get the wrong idea". I do t dress sluttly. I wear nothing that goes above my knee. I cover up when I'm in a swim suit. And I only wear stuff above the knee in the safety of my home.

I can go on and on about this subject. Don't get me wrong. That's hard for guys to go through. But girl have so much more to deal with.

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Also CAV i was making a point that if you like yourself, you shouldn't worry about others opinions of you.

I completely understand where you are coming from. Girls have the same problem when they act to "manly". But my main point in saying that. Makes get paid more. Males don't have to worry (other than what you said) about getting judged.

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Quote: k25205

That's a very idiotic thing to believe in today's harshly judgement world. Everyone hates themselves to a very small degree. No matter what. Growing up female, it is impossible not to have to think of others opinions on you with the way you dress and the way you act and carry yourself etc. Males have it much easier in this world because someone isn't going to judge them, and then hurt them physically. Yes. People. Including myself. Shouldn't be so harsh on themselves. Once you are into the mind set. It is very difficult to get out. As a person who's brain is broken, and literally won't allow me to be happy, it's real ****ing hard to start liking myself. My point in making this. Think of other people's situations before you judge. And maybe. Just maybe. Reach a hand out and help them. You could use your past experience to help them. Not all people, like myself. Would want that help. But it's better then siting on the sidelines b**ching about us.

I'm sorry, I don't usually like to start ****, but I can't this go.
I can't exactly blame you as you probably haven't had first hand experience (guessing you're female, correct me if i'm wrong).
I wouldn't say that males have it worse, but I would say that it's pretty much equal to females. The best example I can come up with is if a male showed stereotypical "feminine" behavior. If a guy liked something like sewing, cooking, cleaning, designing or things that seemed more like female interests, they get ****. If a guy shows any "femininity", they immediately get ragged on and called gay or words I don't feel like saying. At least from my perspective and experiences, these more "feminine" guys have to be extremely careful what they do and how they act. They have to walk right, they have to talk right, they have to show interest in the rights things. One slip up, and you're being called a homosexual. Not only that, many of these "homophobes" are known to assault people they believe are homosexual. What's even worse is if you are gay. You have to go through life (school for me) hiding who you are and being afraid of everyone who looks at you. You have to go through every day wondering if those girls over there are talking about you being gay, if that person who looked at you knows you like guys, if you're going to get beat up when you walk into the locker room. What would happen if you were out? Would they allow you in the locker rooms at all or would they force you to change somewhere else? Growing up in the country isn't the best place either. It's customary for "bullies" to prey on people they feel are weaker. Usually, they believe that guys that show feminine qualities are weaker and so feed on them. I understand that not everyone is the same and maybe some people don't give a **** about what other people think or aren't afraid to be who they are. This is only one example but I still believe that men do not have it easier in this horrible world.

I completely understand where you are coming from. Girls have the same problem when they act to "manly". But my main point in saying that. Makes get paid more. Males don't have to worry (other than what you said) about getting judged. What my main point was. Read what you molded. The end. Physically hurt. Ie. Rape. Girls have to worry about males unable to control themselves because they were "asking for it" that's an extra step girls have to take. My stepfather criticizes each and every outfit I wear. Because "boys may get the wrong idea". I do t dress sluttly. I wear nothing that goes above my knee. I cover up when I'm in a swim suit. And I only wear stuff above the knee in the safety of my home.

I can go on and on about this subject. Don't get me wrong. That's hard for guys to go through. But girl have so much more to deal with.

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Quote: k25205

I completely understand where you are coming from. Girls have the same problem when they act to "manly". But my main point in saying that. Makes get paid more. Males don't have to worry (other than what you said) about getting judged. What my main point was. Read what you molded. The end. Physically hurt. Ie. Rape. Girls have to worry about males unable to control themselves because they were "asking for it" that's an extra step girls have to take. My stepfather criticizes each and every outfit I wear. Because "boys may get the wrong idea". I do t dress sluttly. I wear nothing that goes above my knee. I cover up when I'm in a swim suit. And I only wear stuff above the knee in the safety of my home.

I can go on and on about this subject. Don't get me wrong. That's hard for guys to go through. But girl have so much more to deal with.

Holy ****ing ****.

Boys do have to worry about being judged! Have you ever been to a High School? Where I come from, if you didn't fit into a certain cliche as a guy, you were pretty much bullied and judged relentlessly. Sometimes you were even beaten up. There was no place to hide because teachers didn't give a flying **** because to them, boys had to suck it up and be tough. However, boys can be emotional, boys can cry, boys can feel like they don't belong. Hell, According to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, men actually commit suicide more then females do. Why is this because again, boys are taught by society that they can't ****ing be emotional because if they do, they're called names and judged.

We are on completely different pages right now. I am fully away that males have problems fitting in. My point is that sometimes, and in most cases, females have more troubles. Now, my point wasn't just personality or emotional issues or or fitting in or. fitting in. I meant every single thing that could possibly come up. and let's face it, once your out of high school, that **** gets toned down a lot. I point wasn't the emotional issues, i meant all issues in general. IE women being paid less in the same exact fields as men, like you said (but with males), not being able to act
unladylike) I'm sorry for having offended you.

Quote: k25205

Quote: parisruelz12

Holy ****ing ****.

Boys do have to worry about being judged! Have you ever been to a High School? Where I come from, if you didn't fit into a certain cliche as a guy, you were pretty much bullied and judged relentlessly. Sometimes you were even beaten up. There was no place to hide because teachers didn't give a flying **** because to them, boys had to suck it up and be tough. However, boys can be emotional, boys can cry, boys can feel like they don't belong. Hell, According to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, men actually commit suicide more then females do. Why is this because again, boys are taught by society that they can't ****ing be emotional because if they do, they're called names and judged.

We are on completely different pages right now. I am fully away that males have problems fitting in. My point is that sometimes, and in most cases, females have more troubles. Now, my point wasn't just personality or emotional issues or or fitting in or. fitting in. I meant every single thing that could possibly come up. and let's face it, once your out of high school, that **** gets toned down a lot. I point wasn't the emotional issues, i meant all issues in general. IE women being paid less in the same exact fields as men, like you said (but with males), not being able to act
unladylike) I'm sorry for having offended you.

actually, the wage gap refers to the average pay of a female vs the average pay of a male, not within the same business and usually not within the same field. females work in lower paying fields of work on average compared to men. although this is still a cultural problem, it's a very different problem. in fact it's illegal to pay males and females different for working the same job with the same level of experience and qualifications in the united states and presumably most first-world countries.

and in terms of culture, both males and females both face big problems, although very different ones. males get unequally higher prison sentences for the same crime, are significantly less likely to win child custody cases due to a cultural belief that females are better parents, and are more likely to be the victims of violent crime.

although it's completely true that in many third-world and less developed countries that females have much less rights, in most first world nations it's practically equal.

Quote: k25205

Quote: parisruelz12

Holy ****ing ****.

Boys do have to worry about being judged! Have you ever been to a High School? Where I come from, if you didn't fit into a certain cliche as a guy, you were pretty much bullied and judged relentlessly. Sometimes you were even beaten up. There was no place to hide because teachers didn't give a flying **** because to them, boys had to suck it up and be tough. However, boys can be emotional, boys can cry, boys can feel like they don't belong. Hell, According to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, men actually commit suicide more then females do. Why is this because again, boys are taught by society that they can't ****ing be emotional because if they do, they're called names and judged.

We are on completely different pages right now. I am fully away that males have problems fitting in. My point is that sometimes, and in most cases, females have more troubles. Now, my point wasn't just personality or emotional issues or or fitting in or. fitting in. I meant every single thing that could possibly come up. and let's face it, once your out of high school, that **** gets toned down a lot. I point wasn't the emotional issues, i meant all issues in general. IE women being paid less in the same exact fields as men, like you said (but with males), not being able to act
unladylike) I'm sorry for having offended you.

actually, the wage gap refers to the average pay of a female vs the average pay of a male, not within the same business and usually not within the same field. females work in lower paying fields of work on average compared to men. although this is still a cultural problem, it's a very different problem. in fact it's illegal to pay males and females different for working the same job with the same level of experience and qualifications in the united states and presumably most first-world countries.

and in terms of culture, both males and females both face big problems, although very different ones. males get unequally higher prison sentences for the same crime, are significantly less likely to win child custody cases due to a cultural belief that females are better parents, and are more likely to be the victims of violent crime.

although it's completely true that in many third-world and less developed countries that females have much less rights, in most first world nations it's practically equal.

I seriously don't understand your humor at all. To throw a dog against the wall to see it slide down is ****ing cruel. You laugh cause the dog is limping yet you're scared someone is going to turn you in for animal abuse. You need help girl and to be honest with you saying that it's your dog and you can do what you want with her is ****ing wrong. I'll take the dog and find her a loving home, you are an animal abuser and someone will turn you in.

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I seriously don't understand your humor at all. To throw a dog against the wall to see it slide down is ****ing cruel. You laugh cause the dog is limping yet you're scared someone is going to turn you in for animal abuse. You need help girl and to be honest with you saying that it's your dog and you can do what you want with her is ****ing wrong. I'll take the dog and find her a loving home, you are an animal abuser and someone will turn you in.

Sorry if this is intruding in your business, but you really should report this person if they aren't a close friend (you should report them anyways, but with close friends it's harder to do. Abuse is wrong no matter what form.

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I seriously don't understand your humor at all. To throw a dog against the wall to see it slide down is ****ing cruel. You laugh cause the dog is limping yet you're scared someone is going to turn you in for animal abuse. You need help girl and to be honest with you saying that it's your dog and you can do what you want with her is ****ing wrong. I'll take the dog and find her a loving home, you are an animal abuser and someone will turn you in.

Sorry if this is intruding in your business, but you really should report this person if they aren't a close friend (you should report them anyways, but with close friends it's harder to do. Abuse is wrong no matter what form.

I reported her this morning. Apparently some other people have reported the abuse as well. Hopefully the dog will be removed from the home today.

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Quote: thumper

I seriously don't understand your humor at all. To throw a dog against the wall to see it slide down is ****ing cruel. You laugh cause the dog is limping yet you're scared someone is going to turn you in for animal abuse. You need help girl and to be honest with you saying that it's your dog and you can do what you want with her is ****ing wrong. I'll take the dog and find her a loving home, you are an animal abuser and someone will turn you in.

Sorry if this is intruding in your business, but you really should report this person if they aren't a close friend (you should report them anyways, but with close friends it's harder to do. Abuse is wrong no matter what form.

I reported her this morning. Apparently some other people have reported the abuse as well. Hopefully the dog will be removed from the home today.

Pretty much all my family members: cf u nevr leave ur room y u no spend time w/ us start coming out of ur room we nevr get 2 c u
*i come out of my room for like 20 minutes*
My family members: omfg cf y dont u just go upstairs ur 2 loud we r busy

... Uh. ***** please. I doubt you're always ****ing busy every time I exit my room. Y'all just don't wanna spend time with me. Why else do you think I lock myself up all day? To stay out of your way. Be ****ing grateful. I don't have to be so nice. ._.

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An apology isn't gonna do **** when he's already dead. Stupid ****er...

R.I.P. Cecil

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An apology isn't gonna do **** when he's already dead. Stupid ****er...

R.I.P. Cecil

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Quote: AvatariDragon

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An apology isn't gonna do **** when he's already dead. Stupid ****er...

R.I.P. Cecil

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A friend?

Quote: AvatariDragon

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An apology isn't gonna do **** when he's already dead. Stupid ****er...

R.I.P. Cecil

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Sorry for your loss.

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An apology isn't gonna do **** when he's already dead. Stupid ****er...

R.I.P. Cecil

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A friend?

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An apology isn't gonna do **** when he's already dead. Stupid ****er...

R.I.P. Cecil

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Sorry for your loss.

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